Okay so there is this guy that used to like me back in elem entary, and now that we are in high school, I am crushing on him big time. But he likes my best friend, and kinda likes his ex too. i don't want to butt in, cuz him being happy means more to me than if I was with him. What do I do? And don't say tell him youl ove him, cuz that never works!
2006-10-30 09:09:09 · 24 answers · asked by someone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away when and if hes ever ready he come to you .....
2006-10-30 09:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stand back hun and let him do what he thinks he gotta do ,Meantime you go on and do what you have to do but be there for him as each girl doesnt work out. Be a caring listening friend when the chips are down.I mean honestly from your own words hes got other things in his scope so if you tried to push through it might come off as needy, jealous, or even isecure. Hold off and see if he sets his scope on you hun! Patience is a virtue!
2006-10-30 09:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by btsnpieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is get him away from everything and everyone else and ask him what he wants and how he feels. High schools is hard for guys because we have no idea what girls think or how they work. The best thing is to be straight up with him and let him know whats up otherwise he will never figure it out.
2006-10-30 09:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl if by all this time he has not act like hes digging u then u need to let it go n just be friends dont u think so i do find some1 that is intrested in only u get it dont u think u r worth more than just hopeing he likes u but he likes 2 other girls so that makes him a player n far more confussed so u dont need him as a crush a crush should be some1 that has eyes 4 u
2006-10-30 09:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a move because that will spoil your friendship. Wait. Guys change and a crush can go away in about three months. Then if he is single and doesn't like ur friend or she has rejected him, then go and tell him.
Good luck. Life is challenge and I hope everything turns out fine
2006-10-30 09:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he already kinda has his eye on someone else why would you take a chance of getting hurt by going after him? If he was into you in that way do you not think that he would of showed you in some way already?? JUst be his friend and hang outwith him like that..sometimes being friends is all you can be..at least it is better than nothing
2006-10-30 09:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything but dont say the word love. flirt, play, single him out with your smiles, say words that will give him ideas without exactly pining you down on anything. best off all have fun while doing it, before u know it, he'll look forward to ur flirtatious, fun, harmless yet suggestive pesence and well.... he could remember how he used to like you and want to feel closer but whateve you do don't act like you're stalking him 'cos that aint cool.
and emember, its just High School, catch your fun. you have all the time in the world to be cautious......
Good luck.
2006-10-30 09:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch him when you guys are alone without any friends around and just talk with him. Spend some time. When she comes around act like your in a rush to get somewhere. Do it until he responds. And when your having general convo, stand a lil close to him so he can tell your digging him. Good Luck
2006-10-30 09:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's into not one, but two other girls, you might be out of luck. If you don't want to tell him how you feel, there's not much we can do to help you. I guess you could throw a big rock at him, knock him out, and revive him with CPR. Then you'll already be kissing when he comes to. There you go. You're in!
2006-10-30 09:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by krisski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just stay out of the picture, as to speak, being he likes your best friend. You be cool, and if it does not work out with him and your best friend, then you just start to call him, and hang out where you think he will be. He will start to notice you. Then you can make your move.
2006-10-30 09:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know you are in to him and see what happens after all is just HS is not like you are breaking a couple of years and years just don't take life so seriously.
2006-10-30 09:13:22 · answer #11 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋