This guy I am interested in has told me that he likes talking to me but doesn't want to start anything because he doesn't jump from one to another and doesn't want to get hurt again and isn't sure if he's interested in me. He says he needs time to get past his anger from this woman who used him very much and he just don't understand how someone can do that. I told him I too wanted to take it slow but wants companionship but would be patient. He just wants to talk on phone sporadically. It's been 6 weeks and I have been upset a few times because I want to be wanted by this guy and I just hit barriers and walls. He has hit his 3 strike and your out maximum bs barometer! My question, should I call him and tell him...wait for his call...send an e-mail that he may or may not get or just not say anything? Also, if I tell him I am moving on because of his walls...is it okay or stupid if I tell him that if he can call me if he's ready to knock down the wall and if he likes me?
2006-10-30 09:03:29 · 7 answers · asked by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heres the thing...if he's "not interested yet" he never will be he is just keeping his options open to see if anything better comes along. You dont want to put your self thru that! Been there done that. Its like putting yourself thru the drama of a relationship without the title. NO POINT!.
2006-10-30 09:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by raelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last part confused me but anyway.........Tell this guy how you feel, tell him your tired of taking it slowly and want him despertley! Tell him how he makes you feel when he ignores you, make him give you a straight answer to rather or not he likes you, so if hes just not sure you can move on and stop waiting for him
if your willing to wait, tell him that, tell him you like him a whole lot and that you will wait for the romance, this will give him a chance to say when/if/ how he is ready
or if your the romantic type spill your guts to him, tell him how much you love him and are willing to wait for him put cant take it anymore and after youve said that go up to him and give him a big kiss, this methid will defintley get the point across, it may speeds things up to, so whatever you decide ask yourself if its really worth it, do you really like him that way or are you just poaying a never ending game of when he will finally open his eyes, but whichever why you choose it to be, make sure its what you truly want or you will never be happy
2006-10-30 09:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bridgette ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it time to move on. Let him know that you are tired of waiting and that you won't do it anymore. If you are still available when he is ready, then go for it. Don't wait around though. You may be waiting forever!
2006-10-30 09:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave him enough chances. Move on without him, you don't owe him an explanation.
2006-10-30 09:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time and space he will really need that space and stuff to get over what hi needs to get over then maybe he'll come forward
2006-10-30 09:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is like when a woman says she needs to find herself. (It really means she needs to find someone else to screw)
He is not that into you.
2006-10-30 09:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long to read but the answer probably is he wants to bang other chicks
2006-10-30 09:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋