bf+me=5 yrs. i moved but we were still going out, i came back and he had another girl but didnt tell me, i found out and he said he would break up with her and he did but she still calls him and tells him she loves him, i dont trust him when he says that he doesnt talk to her anymore, i feel really uncomfortable, it has made me really jelous and i was never like this. he let me text her from his phone and i was being mean to her, she thought it was him and she still called after all this. we are not in HS no more and i dont want to play HS games. I dont want anymore drama but i dont want to lose him. i tried talking to him already, also he is scared to go out with me because he doesnt want her to tell me something and try to fight me. She is claiming that i took her man but she knew about me, im the one that should be mad. What should i do? what do i do if she tries to fight me? i know this is silly. she needs to grow up she's been married already.
2006-10-30 08:57:35 · 4 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that he had another girl in the first place is enough reason to leave him and never come back.
2006-10-30 09:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by nowayman72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and why do you ant to stay with him? 5 years is a long time. ive been with my bf for 2 years and its felt like forever. the fact that he went behind your back is really messed up? how are you ever going to trust him again? of course he was cheating on you! he was dating someone else when you moved away. he sounds liek a loser. but obviosly he was looking else where for companionship while you were away and somewhat "forgot" abotu you. if i were you i would leave him. he's not treating you right and this girl is still obsessing with im, how do you know he even has feelings for you? or he still has feelings for her? trust is the most importatn thing in a relationship, besides communication. and obviously trust is something you dont have in your relationship. its til to gather your strenght and move on and find someone who will treat you better. He disrespected you and went out with someone behind your back.. who knows what else he's doing?
i wish you the best of luck
stay strong i know it will be extrememly hard to leave but it will be the best for you. just let them be and move on.
<3 morgan
stay strong, you can do it
2006-10-30 17:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no sweetie u need to let ole boy get to stepping. U don't want to play HS games but this is what u're doing. U're chasing a guy who is playin both of u women. He's telling u he don't want her and then tells her that he don't want u. So guess what both of u females are given up the booty to a loser that don't want neither one of u chick heads. Move on and let that DOG go. Let ole gurl keep scratching.
2006-10-30 17:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Little Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she trys to figth u kick her *** ok
2006-10-30 17:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Cherise B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋