i'm in love with this guy and he's birthday is coming up and i want to send him a gift without him knowing its from me........I am just not ready to let him know that i love him.Any answers would help thanks
2006-10-30 08:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by aliyah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send him a card or a gift using someone else's add, or get a friend of yours who doesn't know him, n he doesn't know her, and use her adress.
You can sign d card using "someone who thinks you're a really cool guy" or "someone who loves you dearly" dat way he won't know.
if u don't have friend u can use, leave the gift at his office or home or backseat of car or sth,
good luck!
2006-10-30 08:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can mail something without a card or return address, but do you really want to? Suppose you do have a chance to get together later. How do you think he will react when it comes up that you sent him this mysterious anonymous present? It makes you sound like a creepy stalker. It's likely to put some doubts in his mind if you're the kind of person he wants to be with.
A birthday is a perfect opportunity to openly give a gift and to start a conversation with this person (assuming you actually know him). There's no reason to sneak around. Give something thoughtful but not over the top--something with more thought than money put into it. Maybe a CD of the kind of music he likes, and you could say, "I remember you saying a while ago that you really liked X, so I thought you would be into this." Ideally you want him to put the thought in his head, "She really gets me."
2006-10-30 08:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can send someone a present without putting your name and address on it; however, if it is not delivered properly (i.e., lost in the mail), the present will not be returned to the rightful owner. Is there an address you can use (work, school, etc.) that he would not know that it belongs to you - just to protect your property in case it is lost in the mail.
Also, think about not wanting him to know its from you. Suppose he is really touched by this gift and has no clue to whom he should thank. I understand you not being ready but think about his response when he opens it - shouldn't he know its from you? You don't have to claim your love for him at this moment; this would just be a "friendly" gesture on your part. :)
2006-10-30 08:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't - its perilously close to stalking and may well bother him rather than give pleasure.
Form a relationship that is not one-sided before you give gifts.
A simple wish of "Happy Birthday" on his birthday will mean a lot - he will know you have taken the trouble to both find out the day and remember it. See how he reacts to that - it will be an indicator of how interested in you he is and you can go from there.
Its not only wrong to force yourself on someone - it is also a major turn-off.
2006-10-30 08:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that if I were you. Not only are you denying yourself the pleasure of his reaction to the gift, but suppose someone else takes credit for it. Instead, why don't you get him an inexpensive, unobtrusive gift (nothing personal or girlfriend-ish) and hand it to him personally. Just tell him you heard it was his birthday and you wanted to do something nice for him.
2006-10-30 08:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go to your nearest flower shop buy a single rose, sign secret admirer, Good luck... PS Guys really do like surprise gifts,and arose says allot!!!
2006-10-30 08:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the place you buy it from deliver it to him. Just don't put your name on the card and tell them not to let him know who sent it. It's not hard to do!
2006-10-30 08:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can...
You can mail it to him directly and put any return address you wish on the package..
You can use a florist and use any sender name or anonymous you want...
2006-10-30 08:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure go ahead, mail it to him and put on the card from a secret admirer.
2006-10-30 08:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know his locker number put it next to his locker, if you know where he sits in his first class put it under his chair, or you can give it to his teacher and the teacher can give it to him.
2006-10-30 08:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by The original John Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋