read my first question about this then this one. Now she says that all she did is say no 3 times but didnt physicly try to stop him or yell or anthing. She just let him do it. I dont know what to do. What should i do? Im so pissed and hurt and cant belive she wouldnt kick or hit him off her.
2006-10-30 08:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by john 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
would you take your gf back if this happend to her?
2006-10-30 08:34:53 · update #1
she wasn't raped.... I avoided this question the first time because I'm not quick to say someone is lying... but it is obvious here. She wanted him too...
2006-10-30 08:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds peculiar to me also. I think she didn't want it to begin with and did tell him no, but she put the friendship and the fact that he was drunk 1st and not the fact that she said no. She didnt call the police or nothing and that is because she doesn't want to get Wade in trouble. She probably laid there and thought in the back of her head to just let him do it and it would be over soon. I would say she handled that alleged rape pretty damn well, wouldnt you? This is categorized in my book as aggressive sex. The sex you descirbed in your last question is the kind of sex I have had a lot of. Maybe I did not want it then or on those terms but the sooner they got it then the sooner they would leave me alone and then I seen that it wasn't bad after all, and no I dont mean with a stranger. "Rape" is a strong word and she should watch herself and how she uses that word. Frankly, I think she really was not bothered much by it and knowing that she has a boyfriend, what would make Wade become so brave over night knowing that there is a possibility that you would disfigure him????? something stinks here.
2006-10-30 08:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Since she was raped several years ago, my guess is it is not having to do with pain from recent penetration- If it is burning to pee, the most common thing is a bladder infection or a UTI. She will definitly need to see a doctor to get antibiotics as well as pills to help with the burning pain. The other unfortunate thing it may be is an STD in which case she will also need to see a doctor to have it checked if the UTI test comes back negative. Bottom line, get to a dr. and quickly!!!!! If its a UTI it will become so incredibly painful the longer you wait and leave it untreated (it can also cause a great deal of harm to your body if untreated). Drink a ton of fluids in the meantime including 100% cranberry juice (helps a little if it is a bladder infection).
2016-05-22 12:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE... i was in that type of situation. My boyfriend was at work and it was me and my friend-girl at the apartment. She had invited some friends over and they were drinking and all. I played cards and hung out for a little bit then decided to go to bed. I few minutes later this guy comes in my room. gets on top of me, i said stop and no but he pushed inside of me and rapped me. I didnt kick him or hit him or anything the next morning i acted like nothing happened. My roommate didnt hear a thing. I was mad at myself cause i didnt do anything to stop him, but i was in such a shock i let him do dat to me. ANY WAy i told my boyfriend, he didnt believe me. He thought i just ****'d another guy. He broke up with me. And we dont even talk anymore or anything. It hurt'd real badd. Its a shame cuz i thought , at least, the person i love would be there for me. He left me heart-broken, raped and alone.
2006-10-30 08:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Carameltye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls get affraid in that situation if they were being raped and some girls freeze up bc there affraid they will hurt them. but dear i think you need to leave her cause it sounds like she is lyiing to you and playing you at the sametime.
2006-10-30 08:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your definitely getting played
2006-10-30 08:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Koontz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like your getting played.
2006-10-30 08:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by stonedpigeon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she's not calling the cops. Would you have known she slept with him if she didn't tell you ? Why would she tell you she got rapped rather than not tell you anything at all ?
2006-10-30 08:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....this is what I would do, look for a better girl and take that one, sorry, but this is what I would do
2006-10-30 08:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sound like she was raped to me!!
2006-10-30 08:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋