this used to happen to me and this weekend it happen to my friend
he never goes out
so he finally decided to go out with the guys for the first time in 2 months his girls caught a ***** fit she started crying asking him a million and one question, askin what he was wearing and what his friends were wearing, then getting mad and then she told him i m going out too and i m going to wear something sexy n slutty
then when the night was over she gave him the silent
all of this for a night with ur friend
why women??????? why do u do this???
u know this causes a man to cheat even more>>>??
but why ***** and complain
2006-10-30 08:06:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend treats her like a queen princess u name it there s no one he rather be with is her but there are days he wants to hang out with his guy friend and do male bonding
what so wrong about that
i m trying to understand women here
2006-10-30 08:11:48 · update #1
I used to be one of these women. Many years ago. Looking back, I can say with confidence that in many of these cases, the woman is very insecure, but most important of *all,* she does not possess an identity that is exclusively her own. She has no life outside of *you*, even if she goes to school and/or works.
Women have got to realize that the only way they can empower themselves and keep themselves and their mate happy is to **get a life**!! Don't worry about what he is doing, do for yourself! If you can manage this then you will find he is around or wanting to be around you much more than before.
If you do not rid yourself of this disgusting behavior you will absolutely alienate your man, and who can blame him!
2006-10-30 08:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by fantushinka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman does this she has big insecurity issues. I mean if a guy wants to go out with the guys once in a while, it is actually healthy, same as a girls night out.
Either one, she has some reason not to trust him and is afraid he is going to cheat or two she has real insecurity issues, which in the end will most likely cause them to break up.
And just so you know, not all woman do this. I do not complain when my BF goes out with his friends. As long as the guy does not choose the guys over the girl all the time there should be no problem.
2006-10-30 08:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like how guys get hung up on the whole "hanging out" with people thing. My fiance goes out to play poker and various other things - that I have no problem with. But if he were going to be going out to a bar or club - some place where singles go to meet other singles, then I would have a problem. As well as he would have a problem with me doing the same. It's about respect and trust. So I have to wonder if the girl is really clingy... or if the guy is doing stuff he shouldn't be doing if he's serious about someone. If he's cheated before.. if she's been cheated on before... it's going to be rough territory.
2006-10-30 08:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have to understand that when two people get into a relationship, there is this phase I like to call "infatuation'' These two people obviously can't get enough of eachother so they spend every second they can together. When one of them finally comes up for air, (usually the man first), a womans response is that their man is getting away. So.....different women have different ways of copeing with this. Many get very jeoulus.
2006-10-30 08:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think often it is a case of the girl feeling insecure in the relationship - actually that she is not mature enough to be secure as a person - is taking all her "self-esteem" from the relationship rather than that the relationship adds to her "selfness" or is a part of it.
But - some guys do this too.
2006-10-30 08:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by yonica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if the bf's tried taking them out,now & again & even let their girls party with them,instead of letting them rot indoors,then maybe they wont make such a BIG deal out of it.
you guys really don't get it.the only reason insecurity will come in,is when there is too much time soend alone,or just doing nothing.keep the ladies minds occupied,by actually doing some activaties together.then she'll be glad if she can have a break.
don't be a fool,while you trying to be cool.just be purple;)
purple-know-it-all
2006-10-30 08:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by purpleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are the same, if my bf wants to go out with his friends fine,i should be able to trust him to go out and not say he gonna cheat, i give that much of a trust, now , if he betrays that, then i guess i shouldn't have trust him in the first place and that would probable ruin the relationship, but the bottom line is he could go out with his friends , i don't have a problem with that.
2006-10-30 08:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by sexymanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do this because they are insecure because they have been hurt in the past and got cheated on and now believe that all men cheat. I do this to my bf for that reason but since you say that my nagging will make him want to cheat more I will try to tone it down.
2006-10-30 08:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We, as women do this because it not that we don't trust our man, we dont trust the dirty friends they hang out with. We know that a man's best friend is the only one who can talk him into doing the most stupidest thing. We know our man is good, but the friend....whispers and chants i bet u want....or ur puzzy whipped....
MY advice spend more time with ur friends girlfriend (not like dat) hanging out make it a group thing. Let her get to know u so she can trust her man around you.
2006-10-30 08:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Carameltye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man oh man. My bf has got caught lying. 4 -5 days out of the week hed rather hang out with his friends. Girls lsoe trust, with shady guys. Your friend treats her like crap and doesnt involve her. Or she could just be a real big baby.
She ll get over it or him one.
2006-10-30 08:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋