out to be a complete messer. He lied, he cheated on me more than once and have only just realized the extent of the fool he made of me. The niggle I have at the moment is I know his how to access a dating site account he has and am so tempted to quietly play as a payback. Know is wrong but any body out there empathise at all or would you all be completely horirfied if I did.
2006-10-30 08:05:20 · 25 answers · asked by evergreen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can imagine how you feel and how strong the temptation would be...revenge is sweet but best served cold....so wait.... and make very sure you can't be traced.... play your cards and then walk right away....have absolutely no more contact...ever.....he is not worth it....
take heart from the fact that there ARE good guys out there, it is just real difficult to find them as there are so many tossers....don't dwell on this one long...its not good for your health! Good luck!
2006-10-30 08:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Susie Drew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend. They say 'revenge is sweet', but i would advise you not to do anything revengeful, it may just come back and bite you on your bum!!
I know right now you feel very used, but time is a healer.
Just try to learn from it, and move on, (i know easier said than done) but believe me in a few months time, you will wonder what all the fuss was about.
You have actually answered your own question.
Your sixth sense is telling you that revenge isn't always worth it.
Every disappointment is for a reason.
2006-10-30 16:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by classychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't be horrified, but believe me when I say "revenge is a dish better served cold!" What I mean is don't do anything in the heat of the moment as you'll regret it.
My revenge to messer's is to wipe all traces of them from my life, so that I don't ever feel the need to contact them, write a letter explaining what a sh*t they are and how they hurt me and then burn it. Show them you have a better life without them!!
2006-10-30 16:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that you want to hurt him back for lying to u and for cheating on you but i think the best thing to do is to move on and leave him in the past. If u go about getting payback ur still giving him ur attension and its probably best to forget him, he doesnt derserve u and go find someone who does. Good luck and take care
2006-10-30 16:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I know that you want to get revenge, but the best revenge of all is to just ignore him.
Forget him and let your 'revenge' just be a fantasy!! Enjoy thinking about all the horrible stuff you could put his way!
By carrying on like this you're giving him all the power. Now you don't want that do you?
I do empathise with you, and we would all like to see the ones who did the dirty on us get 'pay back', but believe me, they don't deserve one more minute of your precious time.
You're better than that, and you know you are!!
Best of luck!
2006-10-30 16:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Moofie's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go For It Mary! He wants to play...show him how! Just make sure it doesn't come back to bite you! I hope you find your Mr. Right and soon! Get a STD test and get back at him by being as happy as you can be. Write this off to hormones and get along with life. I wish you the best and Good Luck! Nana
2006-10-30 16:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand. I've had my share of the cheating, lying bastards and any revenge at the time was just fine. Besides, you'll probably make some other girl a favour as well..
2006-10-30 16:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tempting it may be but resist and hold onto your dignity and self respect. Do unto others as you would have them do to you.
He will not find happiness BUT neither will you following such a course of action. Just walk away and make a new life without him. Forget him
2006-10-30 16:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why you'd want to do this, but you better stay out of it. Be the better person, and try to let it go. Get satisfaction in the fact that he'll probably end up screwing his life over.
2006-10-30 16:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go of it hon, hes not worth it, just look at it this way, hes gone out of your life, hes taught you a valuable lesson, always be cautious around men, but not over cautious as theres still some nice guys out there.
better luck next time x
2006-10-30 18:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by gorgeous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋