my fiance wants to have a 3 some or watch me and another girl but i mean i guess im comfortable with that its just that...i dont know how to approach a woman and ask her those things like to want to do that. How or where do i find a woman to have an experience with?
2006-10-30 08:01:14 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs Medina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest, you don't really want to do this, look at your question:
"My Fiance"...... not "We"
"But I mean..."
"I guess Im comfortable...."
No you're not, you want to get married to be a union of 2, and already its starting out to be a party of 3. These are things that would be explored, PRIOR to a proposal of marriage, not something you want to bring in the honeymoon with you. Besides, if this was not a YOUR idea as well, your opening up a can of worms that can leave you with all types of insecurites every time you guys are intimate or NOT intimate.
Don't make a private thing between 2, a public thing between 3, who's to say it wont be more?
2006-10-30 08:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tricky, and I would be careful who you pick. It doesn't sound like you are really comfortable with it...but if you are, I guess you could try just normal night clubs and see where that takes you. You might also try MySpace. You can set up a space for free and search to find things you are looking for in a person. Good luck whatever you decide. : )
2006-10-30 16:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You leave the woman part up to your fiance and prepare for the backlash of this activity. The reason they call it a fantasy is because it goes much more smoothly and better in your head than in real life. Trust me, this is coming from someone who knows.
2006-10-30 16:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by outspoken 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is what he's asking before you get married, I wonder what he'll ask afterwards?
This is a red flag to me!
On the other hand, maybe it's a blessing so you can see what you're getting into before you say "I do". I'd break it off with him if I were you, and find some man who truly loves you and respects you. Seriously.
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2006-10-30 16:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by djc 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well..that's a really akward scenario...my question to you is do you really want to a fiance who wants to see you with another girl? Can you see yourself looking at her with a different man? that's just plain scary, but hey what do i know? whatever makes you happy. You can do it by ads or by calling some lady escort things.Internet is one as well.
2006-10-30 16:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by hypnos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swingers
2006-10-30 16:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of places on the web to find someone that is interested. That way you can chat first and you don't have to meet her till your comfortable.
2006-10-30 16:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by stonedpigeon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that there is the chance he is going to end up with her too and what if he likes her more than you in bed. How are you going to be when married?
2006-10-30 16:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to find you a girl and you'll concider it.
Let him do the work, your going about it all the wrong way.
2006-10-30 16:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it.. its wrong. I know this will probably be concidered a bad answer. but it is wrong.
2006-10-30 16:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋