Got a Problem....well not really, you'll see?

Question

I consider myself your average guy, adventuresome, creative, fun loving, sports, etc... I am fairly well educated and have held professional level jobs for many years. I am over 40, I date here and there.... I'm straight and I'm relaxed and comfortable.
Here's the deal.... over the past two years I have been attracting more and more younger women (24-28 range) attractive women, I am not going hitting on them, maybe conversation gets started in line at starbucks or a happy hour. Have gone out a few dates, you know movies, dinner etc. We had a good evening... I want keep things light. But, a few of these women want to persue more... I get more sex now than in my 20's, **** are always out at my house and good god do women wear panties anymore..... I would be great to take advantage, but I have to live with myself too. Any of you guys dealt with this problem before. Ladies....any insights to offer.

Answer 1

Am in my forty’s and am sorry to say I am so disappointed with the young women of today! They have no respect for them selves. What is happening with the young gender of today when young women want older men, and young men want older women. I just came back from my vacation in Las Vegas my sister and I could not believe how many younger men hit us up! We are not into younger men because we feel that they are immature. I am glad to here a male pay notice to what is going on I think people are afraid of the truth about what is happening to the young people of today. VERY DISSAPOINTING!

Answer 2

So what's the problem? The reason you're attracting younger women is that women in that age range (and even into my decrepit mid-30s range) HATE GUYS THEIR OWN AGE. Men into their mid-30s are still children, swilling beer and acting like 14 year olds. An over-40s man is more established, probably even has *gasp* a JOB. So there's your answer, I guess your question was why these young girls were hitting on you.

Now to the negative area, your insistence on "keeping it light". When will you men ever learn that women aren't men? We don't sleep around, well most of us *ahem Paris ahem*, and generally women over the age of 25, although maybe not looking to get married, generally would like to be with someone who's looking to be monogomous and in an adult relationship, not just be a f***-buddy. Not only is it an "I'm too old for this ****" drama-free wish, it's also a matter of "Oh yeah, AIDS still exists". Nobody likes a promiscuous man-ho.

Answer 3

A lot of women want a man that's responsible and knows how to treat a girl. The fact is older men are better at a lot of things than younger ones and I'm not just speaking sexually. Guys from your generation still believe in treating a woman right, not like guys our age. Be glad that you're still single and can take advantage of the attention! And also, don't count them out completely as anything that could develope into something serious. There are women that age who know exactly what they want and who they are.

Answer 4

As a mature woman, I am saying LUCKY YOU. It chaps my hind end that you are more into the youngsters than women with not only experience, but morals! I am impressed that you even care! That says a lot about you. Most of your young women are probably counting their lucky stars that they have met a man who can pay for stuff, and may or may not put out. Us older women don't have the 20 year old, sag free, line free bodies, but we do have a whole lot more to offer than the 20 somethings. I think you should act your age, and let a real woman have a chance with you. Then again, I may just be a bit bitter! LOL. Good luck sweetie! Nana

Answer 5

I'm in my twenties and female...hmm my insights ;). Well I'm personally sick of dating guys in their twenties because a lot of them are very immature and tend to want sex more than anything else. I like the idea of dating someone older because they seem more established and not out for just a sexual relationship. Many older men are divorced and missing having someone around, so I think that may be part of it. That said, I have some friends who like to be with older men because they are more 'experienced'. Watch out if you do decide to be promiscuous though, a lot of people have STDs, remember if they're getting into your pants within the first couple nights...they're probably getting into others that quickly as well. My suggestion is be more selective...even if they are the one's flirting. Figure out what you're looking for (relationship/casual sex) and then find someone(s) ;) good luck :)

Answer 6

You don't need to feel bad. If you are being approached by younger women, what is wrong with that. You are attractive, I am sure. Some people don't care about age. I wouldn't say go have sex with them just for the sex, but if they are in agreement with you, what is the problem. If you are afraid of feeling guilty, don't do it just for sex obviously. But, as long as they are legal, what is the problem. Be respectful and try not to make them feel like children. Have fun. Be happy that you are being attracted by them.

Answer 7

And you have a problem with that??? Most people would die for that to be their situation. Date more and see where it takes you. You also can show them you are a gentleman with manners and will wait until things are more solid between you to pursue the bedroom activities. If you don't want to marry, know that woman need companionship too. Woman mature faster then men, you seem to be what they are attracted to. The girls obviously see a mature, approachable, casual, nice man....I wonder if you have common sense to pursue your life with others. IMO you are blessed. I am over 40's and want to date younger. To each his own.

Answer 8

Sounds like you know how to treat a lady to a nice evening, enough that she shows interest in furthering the relationship. Nothing wrong with dating younger women, who knows you may find Ms. Wright this way.

Answer 9

Your description sounds like you are successful and attractive. A great combo for young girls looking for a relationship. So long as you are being straight up and not wanting to get serious with anyone, theres absolutely nothing wrong with playing the field.

Answer 10

I think younger women do like older guys. Older men have a lot to offer a younger woman.
As long as they are of legal age, why are you worried?
Just watch out for 'Da Hoochies'.
Women who just date you for your money.
They are not such a bad thing as long as you know what they're doing. If you enjoy them and they enjoy you and/or your money, and you're ok with that, then go ahead.
Have fun, be careful, hide your wallet.