In my experience there was lust at first sight; however, when I met the man I married, I knew God wanted me to marry him before our first date - crazy, yes! It was over a year later that we started dating. I married him on the basis of choosing to love, citing the example of Rebecca and Isaac, with Abraham's servant symbolizing the Holy Spirit bringing us together. God has blessed us so much, and we love each other more every day! It's so awesome! Be sure to save yourself for your husband, you'll both be so happy you did.
2006-10-30 08:11:40
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answered by Anonymous
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No and we are all brothers and sisters. If you are inspired by lust it is just your seances. If you meet someone and you share most of the same spiritual beliefs it could work out. But mostly it is all based on lust. Men can be very manipulating to get what they wan (sex) so be careful really get to know someone and do not sleep with them until Marriage or you will be sorry as most are. Go to www.essene.org on the truths of Christ.
When one understands there is only one God who has many names then they can understand we are all brothers and sisters. We have to get off the bodily platform. We are not this body mind, senses, our jobs, or even our religions, we are all spirit soul. You can change your religion but not that you are a servant of God.
2006-10-30 16:09:58
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answered by Anonymous
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I believe in attraction at first sight, infatuation . . . if you will. It's when you act on that attraction/infatuation that you find more in common w/ that person and a relationship starts to grow. I also believe in "guarding your heart" (not falling in love with everyone that crosses your path) I believe your heart is like a rose . . . the more you give to the person you're dating, the less you'll have when you truly find the one for you!
2006-10-30 16:03:06
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answered by Carpenter's Daughter 3
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There is no love at first sight...only lust at first sight. Get to know the person, then persue a relationship---and make sure they're Christian too!!!
2006-10-30 15:59:30
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answered by Forget My Name. 3
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I think perfect love is something learned and devopled over time through a relationship with Jesus.... he teaches us to love the other .. No i dont tthink love at first sight is true- until you see their personality and if it bears things worth pursuit
2006-10-30 16:02:28
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answered by chosen_isaiah61 3
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Of course. I saw my baby grandson and it was love at first sight. Blessings.
2006-10-30 15:59:16
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answered by jworks79604 5
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yes accually i met this girl like probly 6-7 years ago and as soon as i saw her i was like "man, i think im in love, i gotta go talk to this girl. we dated for about 3 months and decided to just be friends but we still hang out every day one of us dont have work and i still love her very much just in a different way than before.
2006-10-30 16:05:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, but only if the Lord says it to you in your heart and it's not just your emotions and lust talking to you. Even then, I would take time to think about what He has said and give the relationship time to blossom and grow under His will and guidance.
2006-10-30 16:08:47
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answered by GraceandMickey A 2
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Lust at first sight, love is far, far more than lust. Lust keeps us interested in learning more....provided you don't hop in bed right away. Then why bother looking for love?
2006-10-30 16:01:00
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answered by fluffernut 7
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yes it happened to me
I met my hubby in management class my junior year
I turned around and told my best friend I would marry him
4 years later we married
and it's been 13 years later we are still together!
2006-10-30 15:59:57
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answered by Anonymous
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