Should I quit text messaging? My boyfriend hates it. He said when you text you have something to hide. Im not hiding anything. That what people do now. What should I do.
2006-10-30 07:52:04 · 22 answers · asked by theresa kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes when I text him. He doesnt like it when he is with me and I text my friends.
2006-10-30 08:18:09 · update #1
He doesn't control your life..well at least he shouldn't. I mean if he's that worried over it just show him your messages. Tell him it's just like talking over MSN or even calling someone...he must think you have something to have. Ya'll just need to talk. In person and not by texting.
2006-10-30 07:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there area few reasons why he doesn't really like text messaging. I know, because I was in that position recently.
1. It makes his phone bill a lot more expensive.
2. He would rather like to hear your beautiful voice rather than read a simple bland text message.
3. He's not that good with typing text messages on a cell phone.
I'm sure that there are plenty more reasons besides those.
2006-10-30 07:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is not any longer something incorrect. My boyfriend did this too, do no longer hassle. it extremely is merely that now you have been going out of "a mutually as" he merely would not sense as involved anymore. that would not propose he's mad at you or something, it merely ability that those butterflies which you (the two, i'm particular) used to get once you notice one yet another, are long previous. the novelty of the dating isn't there anymore, and he's merely style of comfortable. in case you have the desire to make texts greater exciting, take administration. Ask a super form of questions, and plan dates. (i.e 'howdy, we actually, certainly might desire to hold out sometime(:' and 'I omit youu!') and you're doing the appropriate component approximately no longer being 'clingy'. the only component that a guy can't stand is a female chum who choose for to be attentive to his each and each flow. Act as though he have been certainly one of your close pals, which i'm particular he's. you do no longer hassle approximately what your pals are doing each and every minute, perfect? good luck (:
2016-11-26 19:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phew!
I thought I was the only one who found the unmitigating "hi hw r u im gd, lv xx" texts frustrating.
I think women like to send text messages MUCH more than guys can be ar**d to receive them - especially if the woman gets all sulky if only 17 or her 48 texts are replied to :)
I am a little puzzled though as to why you are asking US the question.
HE has already said "stop" Is this not a damned fine reason to avoid sending him texts????
Are you hoping someone will say "oooh, no, keep sending him loads of texts - he might suddenly think it's wonderful"
2006-10-30 08:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mark T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want you to text him then stop...text messaging can be annoying to many people...pick up a phone and call him.
When you are with your boyfriend and you are texting other people that is considered very rude. It's like those people who talk on their cell when they are at dinner with other people. Give him your full attention and put down the phone. Very few things are that important...and if it is that important then you should call and speak to the person, otherwise it can wait until you get home.
2006-10-30 07:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him why he dosen't trust you?
Maybe when that's answered then, you can work on the text message issue.
Also, let him know text messaging the most convenient way for YOU to get in touch with your boo:) I'd be willing to bet that if you didn't text message him for a week, he'd miss it and appreciate even more.:)
The Puck
2006-10-30 07:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Amir C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...it depends what your texting. You should text things like....hey we need to talk later, call me when you're not busy, meet me tonight, how about a movie later...If you are texting things that should be talked about face to face then maybe that's why your boyfriend hates it.
2006-10-30 07:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by lovelylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see...how about spend more time studying and less time sending text messages. Your grades will improve and the issue will be resolved.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-30 07:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he doesn't trust you. That is bad, but at the same time you should consider whether he has any legitimate reason not to trust you. If you are a very trustworthy person, then he should not be acting that way.
2006-10-30 07:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kyleontheweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like it then you should stop. Alot of people dont like to text, plus depending on the phone plan, it can get VERY expensive.
2006-10-30 07:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by lindsey9180@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋