I went out with a guy socially for 4 years.......each time he brought
me home he felt the need to say, "I like you as a friend and I like spending time with you......but this is not a REAL date." We've been married for 28 years......have two boys and 2 grandkids.
You never know.
2006-10-30 07:47:22
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answer #1
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answered by Dino 3
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No. Why would you? It would be pretty unfair to the person that was in awe over the other one. I always tell my friends never go out with a guy/girl unless you have some type of feelings more than a friend. Though, if those feelings are small and they dont really grow in the relationship, they should really think about leaving them because it would be unfair to like the person less than they like them.
2006-10-30 07:46:17
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answered by Anonymous
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No. Don't go out with someone under false pretenses. Would you like someone you like, who doesn't really like you, to go out with you because they feel sorry for you? No. That would not feel nice. Don't lead a person on. If you like someone, but they don't feel the same, whats the point? Move on a find someone who does like you, or who you do like. That way you know something can come of the relationship. What is the point of putting effort into something that can lead nowhere (and a GOOD relationship take effort!)
2006-10-30 19:06:59
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answered by dragonfly 4
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No i would not, because if you did the person will be building there hopes and all of the time you will be thinking how can i finish this. At the end of the day i would be honest before hand and not go, that way that person is going to get hurt
why would you want to build someones dreams like that and why would you want to hurt them like that?
2006-10-30 10:08:35
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answered by blondegirl 3
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It is very hard to understand but, if the other person likes you then give him/her a chance unless you really don't like them. Everyone will go out with the person they truly like but, before you do this make shirr the other person like/loves you back. p.s. don't go out with the other person that likes you back unless you like them back or it will just heart that person. I hope I helped. And if you know the answer why did you ask it???
2006-10-30 07:49:48
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answered by nickgame 1
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Hmmm. Maybe sometimes you don't know until you have tried it.
Maybe you are basing whether she likes you on whether she'll give you some? This isn't the way to determine if a woman likes you. Not all of us are nymphos.
2006-10-30 07:45:41
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answered by jam_please 4
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there's a difference in going out with someone you like, care about, and want to make them happy....
then there's going out with someone, leading them down the garden path into thinking you love them, but in actual fact you are just using them for what you can get, it works both ways!
it always seems to be us women who end up being in the latter option, we all have options, stear clear of the one's wanting to lead you down that garden path!!!!!!!!!!!...if the feeling isn't mutual..don't go there
2006-10-30 21:55:47
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answered by Just passing the time! 5
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erm, i went out with someone who chased me for over a year, i was never interested in him as anything other than a friend, then we started seeing each other, but it was doomed from the beginning... how could it have worked? the feelings weren't reciprocated from day one. his feelings were way stronger than mine were. so in response to your question, been there, done that, bought the t shirt and grown out of it....
2006-10-30 07:59:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Why would you? You go out to have a good time etc...why would you spend time with someone you don't like??? Where is the good time? My time off is precious so I choose to spend it with people I get on with and can have a laugh with....
2006-10-30 08:01:56
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answered by Susie Drew 3
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Well i always gave everyone a chance when i was asked. You never know you might end up liking the person when you get to know them.
2006-10-30 07:45:34
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answer #10
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answered by Hairdorable 4
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