this guy i like is so cute. he has a girlfriend who i think only will sleep with him because i stepped into HIS picture. But I think his feelings for her is wearing off. Everyone can tell but I don;t want to spoil a "good" relationship. I really thinks he want to be with me but can't find the courage to break up with his girlfriend. At first it was childish(i would step away) but now I really have feelings for him and Im sure he has the same feelings for me too. Wat should I do?
2006-10-30 07:38:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really has feelings for you, he will break up with his current girlfriend, if he doesnt, then his feelings are with her..
2006-10-30 07:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a Yahoo! ER
If it's a emergency, there are some toll free number you can call the hotline to get some good advise.I work with people like you who have gone in crisis. It's 24 hours and 7 days a week and it opens on holiday too. The numbers is:
1 800) 786-2463
1 800) 438-2238
1 800) 278-8743
2006-10-30 08:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by WANTED !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um you should not say something is an emergency unless it really is. And I'd step out of the picture. He's taken, you dont need to interfere. If he breaks up with her then you can go for him but right now don't get involved.
2006-10-30 07:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, this isn't an emergency. If he's still with his girlfriend then his actions speak louder than his words.
he may truly have some feelings for you and think you are cute, hot, ect..., but if he really did want to be with you, then he'd ditch the girlfriend.
I am totally not saying this to be mean, but with guys....you have to look at what they DO rather than what they say. if he's more afraid to hurt her feelings by breaking up with her for you, then he likes her more than he likes you.
it sucks, but that's how guys are.
Good Luck and Blessings!
2006-10-30 07:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try working on being on "just friends" status with him first (use it as a chance to learn more about him)..... then just sit back, wait for the break-up, then make sure your in the right place to become his new g/f.
2006-10-30 07:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with another girls man.. Would you want some other girl stepping in between you and him if it was you two together?? If he really wants to be with you he will get the balls to break up with the one he is with on his own..
2006-10-30 07:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come to you. Don't ruin a current relationship because that always causes more trouble than what is worth and may come back to haunt you. Love works in mysterious ways. If it is meant to be it will happen.
2006-10-30 07:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered your own question...."HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND"
dont be one of those girls, PLEASE!!
dont be one of those girls that we all hate....dont steal another girls boyfriend when there are a MILLION other guys out there. leave him alone. if he wants to be with you, then he will break up with his girlfriend. dont be on the side-lines pushing him into it. just let it chill for a minute. do your own thing, let him do his, and most importantly let TIME decide what's gonna happen.
2006-10-30 07:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the one who needs to do this, not you. If he wants to break up with her, he will. Just try to be patient. If he really has those feelings for you, it won't be long before he breaks up with her.
2006-10-30 07:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt have feelings for her anymore then its okaay dunt feel badd that probably means he wants to be with you. TELL HIM that you like him
thats the only way to go
and see what happens from there
2006-10-30 07:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by missunderstood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋