i've been having a girlfriend for a year already and she keeps asking me if i still want to be with her i dont know what is her problem?should i leave her or stay with her
2006-10-30 07:30:42 · 14 answers · asked by danny g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She just wants to feel appreciated and hear how much you like her
2006-10-30 07:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her. she seems insecure about herself. She's probabl;y not used to all the attention or everythign about having a boyfriend is just overwhelming for her and it's just too much. Seems like she can't make up her mind about what she wants. and if you can't convince her. Just stop trying adn drop her like a hot potato before she starts going super spycho on you. why don't you ask her the same thing and see what she says.Don't let her boss you around like that i mean just be honest with her. if you dont want to be with her. just say no. Don't say yes because your afraid of hurting her..Just say how you really feel. Because it seems like at this point that you could care less.
2006-10-30 15:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is unsure of herself and your relationship. Have you given her anything to worry about? Has she heard anything? You have a big decision should you stay with her or leave her. If you love her then stay. if you seriously doubt there is anything with her then leave. it' simple. if she keeps asking it and it is starting to aggravate you then tell her to stop asking or you are going to leave. unless she wants to leave you and is too afraid to say anything and is leaving the choice up to you. turn it around on her and out of the blue ask her if she still wants to be with you.
2006-10-30 15:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that to me would depend on how deep are your feelings for her. Are you just dating her just to say you have someone in your life? Or is she just convenient for you? I think this ball is in your park sweetie and the only one that can make that decision is you and not a bunch of strangers. Remember, we did not go out with you on your 1st date. We weren't in the sack with you the 1st time, we weren't there during the 1st argument. These are all thing to consider and mostly how you view her and feel about her. Time to grow up sweetie! Only you can do this!
2006-10-30 15:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be surprised that u'd like a girl like her or she might wanna want u 2 leave her......Just ask her y she keeps asking that. If u really like her then ofcourse stay with her!!!!! Do what ur heart says is rite. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-30 15:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason that she is feeling like she just don't do it for you any more, so ask her why she is acting that way. Maybe she don't want to be with you anymore but don't know how to tell you?
2006-10-30 15:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is that she thinks that you have doubts and that your the one who dosen't want to be in the relationship, therefore, she is asking you. If she wanted out, she would have dumped you by now. Perphaps your acting differently around her and giving her the impression as if you no longer want to be with her. I would talk to her about it.
2006-10-30 15:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep telling her yes that you still want to be with her and also when she askes you that ask her if she wants to be with you and if you dont want to be with her tell her no you dont want to be with her. just do what ever your heart says
2006-10-30 15:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is insecure of what she is wanting ask her if she still wants to be with you
2006-10-30 15:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she keeps questioning you.... sometimes I ask my boyfriend because it is nice to hear him say yes!
2006-10-30 15:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we ask things like such we just want to hear you say we are pretty and you want us... thats all it it... you should stay with her...
2006-10-30 15:42:54 · answer #11 · answered by jeans0079 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋