This is my situation, I'm with a great guy and we are going up north to a cabin to spend the week together. I've never spent the night with him. I'm afraid because he likes to look good and wants the same in return. However, I wear a wig and he doesn't know that. He wouldn't dump me for it because he's a good guy, (might find another reason as an excuse) but it would freak him out and change our relationship, possibly ending it because I am completly bald.
2006-10-30 07:30:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better tell him before the trip
2006-10-30 08:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww A Good RelationShip Is Built On The Truth And I Doubt he Would Mind You Should Twell Him Fast As The Longer You Wait The Worse
2006-10-30 15:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cryss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you wear a wig? If your relationship is to the point of going away to spend the week with other, I just betcha he isn't as clueless as you make him out to be. Other wise I'd think up something clever like when you walk into the cabin, turn around to face him, jerk it off and say TA-DAH!
2006-10-30 15:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by marciacarter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently you have dated this guy for a while if you two are going to go away for a week.....you probably should have thought about that earlier on. He may be a little confused as to why you didn't tell him, but if he is as good a guy as you said there is a chance he might get over it. Quit being ashamed, tell people from now on and you won't have to dread the future of rejection.
2006-10-30 15:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is easier said than done, but you have got to tell him. In fact, let everyone know. Do not be afraid. If you really like him, and I hope that he likes you the same, he will understand. We all have some sort of physical trait that we wish we could change. No, I am not in your shoes, mind me. But I am only trying to help. Let your true beauty come forth, and if he lets you go, then so be it. Be strong........
2006-10-30 15:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hrad but tell him the truth before so you dont freak him out. also why are you bald? explaine that to him!! and if he is SUCH A "GOOD GUY" then he would not bread up with you for being bald and he would not find another reason to do it. he would accept you for you and think your beatiful no matter waht
2006-10-30 15:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really freak me out. without a good excuse I mean.
However I am shallow at times.
2006-10-30 15:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no well if he is such a good guy hells ee you for you and not for your out side beauty. ut if it really matters ut a scarf onawhen you go to sleep or my be a bonet so it looks like you have to wrap your hair up before you go to sleep. rembet india arie song i am not my hair i am not this skin i am not your expection no.........
2006-10-30 15:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have started the relationship without him knowing. if he doesn't like you even though you are bald, screw him and find someone with a heart.
2006-10-30 15:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alot better to be up front from the gitgo other wise you're both wasting valuable time .........if you both spend days with each other but don't like one another ...........you both lose!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 15:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋