Hi im only young but i have bin with my bf for nearly 3 years since i was 15. So ive kinda grown up with him.. i made the mistake of kissing another man after wed been together for 1 month and he only just found out after 2 and a half years. I was afraid to tell him because the longer i was with him the closer we were and the harder it was. He was really hurt. But he also was aproched by another woman a year ago and he kissed her but came runing staight to me crying and aking for my forgivness. I took him back straight away beacause he didnt kno what i had done in the past.
After hed found out it seemed like everythink was going to be ok and i thought he was over it. But he has slowly started to stop caling me and is working a lot and using excuses like 'i want more time with my friends' or 'i need to work for the money' .. but i feel like hes avoinding me.. we were so close and so in love we spent every day together. Does he still love me? how can i get him 2 be interested again?
2006-10-30 07:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by mkjess2189 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-30 07:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still loves you. But when you have been in a relationship that started when you were both so young, the people within will have the tendacy to rebel. The grass is always greener on the other side. When you are taken you want single, vice versa. Good luck.
2006-10-30 07:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Teddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some space. that seems like what he wants right now. he prob needs to think. i am in the same situation except i married and he found out after we got married and ended up divorcing me. well now he is back wanting me again telling me he thinks we can work this out. i hope you know what you really want and just don't pine for him day and night.
2006-10-30 07:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by JLEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone wants space you have to give it them. Its hard to stay silent when I'm sure you have so many things to tell him but just let him be and when he's ready to comeback(and I'm not guaranteeing he will) he'll comeback to you. Let him know your still there for him and just go about your own business.
2006-10-30 07:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think kissing the other guy has anything to do with it. I think he just wants to move on. It'll be hard, but I would suggest for you to move on too.
2006-10-30 07:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋