We started dating age 15. When i realized i was falling in luv wit him, i got scared; i broke up wit him cuz i culd neva have stood it if he dumped me - i would have been hurt. We've been great friends since then, n we've seen each other through everythang -mum's death, his relationships, skul etc he recently got a gf. I was jealous at 1st cuz i know her, esp. since they had dated b4; well i didn't let d jealousy consume me cuz i luv him so, so i just decided to stand by him, n i've been doin' dat ever since.
Recently, as i was thankin him 4 always bein there 4 me, even after he stopped loving me in dat way, he told me he never did, n he still does. I love him 2, n this time i ain't scared. I'm no longer that 15 year old, i want to b with him.
even though we both reveiled to each other we've secretly loved each other all these years. he has a gf, i didn't want her hurt, i was afraid he'll leave her so i lied to him dat i have a bf. i love him, it's driving me crazy.
what do i do?
2006-10-30 07:25:52 · 14 answers · asked by Bubbles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him the truth! the truth shall set you free! i am sorry to sound so critical, please do spell check the slang word took me for ever!! (laughing)
If you love him that much and he loves you tell him before she loves him to much more then the next thing you know she is pregnant and then he's getting married, don't just sit there tell him to break up with her and you two go get hitched (that married ha ha)
2006-10-30 07:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hotonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love him still and want to get back together. and tell him why you broke up with him in the first place, and tell him you dont really have a boyfriend. If you cant tell him face to face write him a letter or send him an email. I know that this may hurt his girlfriend if he says yes to getting back together with you, but you have shared a history together so you shouldn't let her get in the way of you telling him how you feel, because if you do you will most probably end up regreting it and wondering what might have happened. hope i've helped. Good Luck
2006-10-30 07:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by pinkgirly135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may no longer be 15, but both you and your ex still sound terribly immature. Why not spend some more time growing up before you take another stab at this relationship stuff, hm?
2006-10-30 07:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Where there is love someone will have to be hurt. You can't avoid it. If you two want to be together, someone will have to be hurt. It's better she be hurt now than later. In any case tell him the truth and see where that takes you two. Good luck.
2006-10-30 07:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other, and he does not love the other girl, it would be better for him to be with you! She does not want to be with someone that doesn't love her. And the two of you shouldn't be around her pretending things are not the way they really are. whatever the case is, its up to him to make his decision and then act on it.
2006-10-30 07:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Belly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should stop lieing to him thats not gone to make the things greqat because you have to keep up with those lies. tell him that you and your boyfriend broke up ( last lie) then tell him that you dont want him to break up with his gurl because of the love yall share because you dont want her to be hurt. and youiknow how it is to be hurt and you wouldnt wish thatg on hner. but tell him that you will always love hima nd when hes free youll be waiting because you guys are unspearteable.
2006-10-30 07:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love an dyou lose him you never now what u got to it is gone i guess you got to let him go and maybe someday he might be bcak good luck>
2006-10-30 07:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by newmom3272002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sweetie.
Drama drama drama.
Jesus girl. Get a hold of your self.
Let the man go.
Or fight for him
2006-10-30 07:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jayne's final thought for this evening...
you go girl! you should just tell him, u don't live forever and if he makes your belly flip then you shouldn't waste any time
xx
2006-10-30 07:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie first of all. Just go straight up and tell him...don't hint don't do anything...you know what you want...so do it.
2006-10-30 07:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by Soccer Stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋