my co-worker usually blames me for her mistakes, how do I confront her about this and also let my boss know that she always points the finger at me. And most of the time I'm clueless of what I'm being blame of.
2006-10-30 07:24:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
make her life miserable. if you cant beat her, try to get rid of her. think back to junior high.
2006-10-30 08:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you have to take her aside, privately, and just out right ask her why she blames you for things you had nothing to do with. (If you know for sure that you were NOT involved in it). When you do tell your boss about her make sure you have solid proof to back up your statement b'cause you'll be standing alone with that one. Find out just what exactly you are being blamed for b'cause maybe you were involved somehow...If not then confront her and tell the boss.
Good luck
2006-10-30 15:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by peg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i hate it but it happens all the time the next time your blamed for her mistake tell your boss in private that your being blamed unfairly
2006-10-30 16:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, so smile and smile and smile again.
You are being prepared for the future...perhaps if you're good at ignoring it, you can run for public office......
and remember this is what every mother gets trained for because whenever the kid gets into trouble, WHERE'S THE MOTHER, and mom gets blamed for everything!
2006-10-30 15:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you could do is put a video camera (hidden) somewhere so that it gets on video and show ur boss.... or u can just ask ur co-worker why she is blaming things on you.. i hope that helps
2006-10-30 15:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by ur_worst_nightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her,tell her to stop and if not than tell your boss about your co-worker
2006-10-30 15:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would save the proof if you have it and confront her with it.
2006-10-30 16:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is and idiot and you are onto her mistaken ways! Ship up or Ship out!
2006-10-30 15:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
2006-10-30 15:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋