I'm 23 and he's 24, we've been casually dating now for about 2 months, almost 3 months. We see each other a few nights a week, and we call each other throughout the week. We've been intimate and what-not. However, I know he's not seeing anyone else, and I'm not interested in seeing anyone else, so I was wondering, Do I ask him where we stand? Or do I just be patient and let things naturally happen without questioning things? Or do I casually mention something to him about wanting to be serious? Any suggestion would be helpful!!
2006-10-30 07:18:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy. I am always asking myself should I say somthing but I never do. If you don't he might not either.
2006-10-30 07:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by bored out of my mind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is called your perfect right! Ask where you stand and let him know that you are wondering about this being serious or not. If he does see this as a serious situation....you need to move on. If you get hurt, well better now than wasting years and finding out later.
2006-10-30 07:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him you want to be serious it will make him run off.. that and Let him come to you with taking it further....If you need to know where you stand you could jokingly say your mine now.. and laugh it off or ohhh your my boyfriend.. just stupid taunting jokes just to see his reaction and if it's a bad reaction then you will know where you stand if it's good then great but don't just sit in the dark and wait for him...
2006-10-30 07:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by candylbsb45 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely ask him where you'll stand and let him know how you feel about you'll potential being serious. It won't hurt to talk to him about it, communication is the key!
2006-10-30 07:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Inquisitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just go with the flow, if its not broken don't fix it. Be happy as you are less pressure on both ends.
2006-10-30 07:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just let things happen on their own...that could be some help i guess.well good luck!
2006-10-30 07:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she should ask him where you guys stand so you dont think something different then he is thinking
2006-10-30 07:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by lil duce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk. if you shoot him maybe he'll tell you
2006-10-30 07:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Malaickle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋