Im a 16 year old guy and Im pentecostal and my gf from my church is 13 and I have no intents of any sexual interaction with her, I simply love her....she acts and looks around my age I am almost 16 but I reely love her and Im in church and all and I cant explain why but I love her, not for her looks or personality...theres something about her Im in love with I should say everyone knows were dating and thinks were great together and she loves me and I love her...Is this wrong
2006-10-30 07:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by Justin_plays_guitar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's only three years difference which isn't bad on the surface. The problem you might run into is that these tend to be two different worlds - middle school vs. high school; high school vs. college, etc. These mean different experiences each of you will be facing and sometimes different maturity levels. However, it is a fact that girls mature faster than boys so she may stay even with you on that level. If it's God's will for the two of you to be together, things will find a way of working out.
2006-10-30 07:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your motives are pure...then why not just be her friend for now. There is such a big gap, emotionally between a 13 and a 16 year old. Believe me--she's not ready. Perhaps you are drawn to her simply because she is pure and innocent. So many young girls your age have already given in to sexual temptation and that may make you feel uncomfortable due to your spiritual convictions. So, it's "safer" in your mind to like a young girl because then there is no pressure on you to do something you feel is morally wrong. The best thing you could do for this girl is let her grow up. You might change your mind about her when you are 19 and she's 16. Wait it out my friend. Talk to your pastor.
2016-05-22 12:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being in love with her. Just as long as you realize that love is not a feeling, love is a action. Love will not ask you or force you to do anything ungodly. Love is unselfish....As the both of you grow, encourage each other in your walk with Christ....You will be tested in many areas, and satan will try to use the both of you against each other, in using one of you to cause the other to fall. Be patient and read 1 Corithinans Chapter 13 together out loud. Pray for each other....and always remember that Christ is first, never put her before Christ and encourage her to do the same. As long as you focus on Christ, everything else will fall in line.
God Bless
2006-10-30 07:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep it clean and if you really like her ask God for guidance everyday (for real). Treat her good and dont break her heart. Please keep it clean. Im not gonna say your too young because heck your gonna do it anyways but dont sin. Do things together like read the bible and do sports. Remember this: In order for a relationship to work you need to be friends first.
OMG- and dont ever take advantage of her age.! Never. Treat her like an equal and respect her. Please.
Keep her safe and if no one is opposing ..... God Bless You 2!
2006-10-30 07:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but 13 is too young to date. If you don't mind a suggestion, I'd wait until you're 18 and 21 to pick that up. Yes, five years can be long, but it may be worth it, as both of you may be mature and better able to handle things.
2006-10-30 07:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as christian were pure so keep it that way AND also remember her age to dont forget that shes still young and not exactly at your level yet dont love get in the way of the religion hold love high and religion higher.
2006-10-30 07:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by penut 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you being christian may set various values about things but here it is irrelevant.. seems you simply have a close friend...even though your relation will change over time
2006-10-30 18:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong at all! its good the both of you have that attitude, it means you won't have to worry about getting her pregnant.
it's also good that you love her not just for her appearance, why aren't there more guys out there like that???!!!
2006-10-30 07:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you found a good friend.
2006-10-30 07:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think so if no one else does? Maybe you need to re-evaluate.
2006-10-30 07:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋