I was having sex with my younger boyfriend and then he said twice that I was hurting him while I was on top. I never and nobody has ever told me that before. I feel confussed. How can we hurt guys while on top? Do you have pain during sex?
2006-10-30 07:04:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you can! If you position wrong, it can accidently bend...ouch. Or maybe you are rubbing him raw. Talk to him and find out what exactly the problem is and try it a little different the next time. Good Luck.
2006-10-30 07:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've heard a girl who was on top who came down on a guy wrong and tore that connective tissue that attaches the d!ck to the body. It was rather graphic and horrific. Don't mis understand, his d!ck wasnt' torn off but the thing was just ahanging and there was MASSIVE bleeding that was visible under the skin.
As for that, hmmm.... is he circumsized? If not he could have a condition with his foreskin that makes it so he can't open his penis or he'll tear the skin, I have a friend who has that and he had to go get circumsized before he could keep going.
Are you riding hard? Riding hard, after a while rubs up agains the the bone right up there above the pen!s. It feels bruised and sore after a night of rough sex.
Are you not using lube and have a naturally dry kitty? This will lead to rubbing and possible painful tears.
This last one is my personal experience that I haven't hear anywhere else, but, do you have long labia? like large ones that might impede normal penetration? You need to use lube then even if you're sopping wet, it pulls on the tender skin at the tip and hurts when doing it. This may also have something to do with size and everything, but I don't go around comparing my member to my neighbors, so I have to assume I'm average.
Good luck.
2006-10-30 07:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so I had the same question a while ago. It is possible. When I get on top of my boyfriend sometimes the mood is too hot and I am into it too much I have bent his "man hood" backwards. It was an accident but when he screamed I knew what I had done. You just have to be careful while having fun. He has also told me that when I am on top I am alot tighter then on the bottom and that he feels like my muscles could pinch "it" off. The only person who knows what you hurt is him just ask him
2006-10-30 07:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a few ways
if you have shaven but it is growing out...then that could hurt...stubble can be quite painfull.
if the womans vaginal canal is shorter than his penis then the pressure of the penis making contact with the cervix could be quite painfull for bothe people if she is on top putting her weight down on it
if the man is only semi erect then a miscoordinated thrust could pull his penis out of the vaginal canal and bend it when she comes down onto it...once again....OOOOUCH!
or if he's had sex quite a few times that day then by around the 5th-6th time it could start feelng painful...usually by that time the female is way more sore than the guy is though
2006-10-30 07:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're riding too hard you could break it. It only takes about 15 psi to cause a burst blood vessel.
2006-10-30 09:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by too hot to touch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. ive had that experience also not to long ago. i too was on top and he said i hurt him a little. i dont know how. i think its the way we do it. it could bend or something. thats what he said.
2006-10-30 07:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by britni h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's possible... just ask him exactly what kind of pain he's in... could be he's using it as an excuse not to c u m... trying to hold out longer for ya.
2006-10-30 07:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bethany benz became doing a scene with a male performer whilst there became a noisy, surprising 'snap' sound. the male performer withdrew, and blood at the instant began flowing from her and from the phallic gland of the guy's penis. she had actually broken his penis.
2016-10-03 02:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u must have been riding him hard momma
ridin cowboy
he s wuss handle the pain man
pain is pleasure and pressure bust pipe
2006-10-30 07:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has foreskin that isn't long enough, sometimes people have foreskin issues where it kinda pulls hard.
Get some lube.
2006-10-30 07:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋