Why dont guys....?

Question

Tell me they think Im hot in person? They always tell me when im on the computer. Why is that?

Answer 1

Let me start of by saying.... you're hot!

We are shy, we have a sense of humility, and we don't have enough guts to say it to you because we fear how you may react. We are afraid of rejection. God what if you actually spoke back to us!? I'm already anxious just thinking about that.

Answer 2

Kave they ever seen you in person? Is the only face they see is the vivatar Angel Eyes?

Some gorls just look great when they walk away. Matbe you look your best to people who have met you once you are out of site.

Of course some women have told men to stop complimenting then and are interested in someone who appreciates there mind and what is inside not what is on the surface. They may be gunshy in person because of this. Besides if you are pretty you already know it so do not worry about what men say just worry about what they do. Actions speak louder than words.

Answer 3

becasue on the computer you have a persona they like and everyone is 5 foot 6 inches with a 24 inch waist and a double d bra size on the internet. They are primarily visiually stimulated and make a mental picture of who you are based on the minimal information they recieve about you. Of course alot of men on the internet are looking for someone to satisfy them sexually in the moment on the internet so they will be more desprate as well. The best place to meet men who might give you a more honest opinion would be in a place where it is not oriented toward romance or dating.

Answer 4

Guys are embarrassed. A lot of people use the computer to tell people they are hot because it is almost like hiding behind a mask, and rejection is handled better that way. Come see me, I'll tell you I think you are hot, because i learned a while ago hiding is pointless.

Answer 5

Because, they're to shy to say it to you in person. They worry about what your reaction would be so they just keep it to themselves. However, on the internet, more then likely they're by themselves, in their house or somewhere else where a computer is available. Where there is peace and solitude and they act themselves because they are by themself. This makes them open up more freely, because they have nothing to lose and no one who is noticeably going to get offended. On the computer and in person is two different situations. It's not because they don't find your attractive if that's what you're thinking. You're probably very cute.

Hope this answers your question.

Answer 6

That's a hard thing for a guy to come out and say in person. All men have a fear of saying something like, "oh, you are the most perfect woman in the world" and then having the girl say, "gross, buddy, you're such a toad. Ew." Trust me...most of us men have had it happen.

Answer 7

lots of things are easier to talk about over the internet or through a text message. either they dont want you to be offended by there forwardness adn slap them(when doing it over the computer you couldnt physically harm them) or they are too shy to go up to you adn tell you to your face...

Answer 8

Face to face converstaions are harder for most to grasp then talking though a median like a computer.

Answer 9

Because on the computer we can use our imagination...For all we know you may be a cartoon girl stuffed in an avatar!

Answer 10

because the only way guys find you hot is when they cant see u in person. ie. thru the computer. Putting it in simpler words: UR UGLY