Is she really worth all the aggravation?

Question

My G/F and I are on a break at the moment. She is very clear on that she doesn't want this to be a break up, and that we will work on gettign back together. She told me if I started to see anyone else that it would be over. But now she is going out with a new group of friends, drinking, and partying, and there is a guy that is very intrested in her. She says that nothing has or will happen. But I remember how she gets when she is drunk, and I really don't want her going out when this guy is arround. She says to trust her, but I am finding it harder and harder to do so.
Is it really worth me waiting around for her? If we do get back together will all this just cause a rift between us once we do? Should I just tell her it is over and just move on to someone who isn't going to keep me on the back burnner while they "test the waters"?
What would you do?

Answer 1

Turn and run dude, this girl is playing you like a fiddle, if she wants to be with you then she should just be with you. It'll be real difficult to leave but you'll be better off, she sounds very manipulative and flirtatious she'll probably hook up with the guy and then you'll be out there all by yourself feeling like a total tool. You need to say goodbye or you're going to regret it. If she starts crying just stick to your guns, don't waste your time on someone who makes you feel insecure you deserve better.

Answer 2

I think it is already causing aggravation on your part.You have to ask yourself why did she want to go on a break. She cant have her cake and eat it too. I would tell her how you feel and if she doesn't understand where you are coming from then there is your answer. She is out having fun and you are at home wondering what she is up to. So if she wants to go on a break again what are you going to do? Make it clear to her how you feel cause it just isn't fair or right.Ask her how she would feel if the situation was vise versa. Good luck and dont let her play you for a fool.

Answer 3

Im sorry sweetie. Shes totally stringing you along. Shes keeping you around cause she knows she can get away with it and all the "fun" shes having without you. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Dont let her. It will only get worse, especially if you get back together, she has a new crowd and she obviously doesnt want you a part of it. Sounds to me she has moved on but wants you as someone to fall back on if it doesnt work out with her new crowd. So no its not worth it. Go out and have some fun, meet new people and forget about her and her games.

Answer 4

It sounds like she likes you but she's just trying to put you on the back burner in case she can't meet anyone better. That's a sh*tty thing to do to someone and I wouldn't put up with it. When you really care about someone and/or love them...you're supposed to be there for them/with them through thick and thin. What are her reasons for wanting to take a break but also not wanting you to get with anyone else??? That's WRONG!! You should have a talk with her. Tell her that you feel like she's putting you on hold and that you don't want to be treated like that. Tell her that you're willing to stick with her through whatever it is she needs a break from, or you guys should just break up altogether until you both want to try again.

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Answer 5

i m sorry
u r on a break
she is trying to control u and the situation

i tell u this if u stay and listen to her word
u will end up screw man cuz she will have all the power in the relationship

i remember one time i was out with this girl i was seeing
she told me to wait there while she talked to her friend who got us in the club for free after waitin a couple of minutes and seeing her enjoying her time with him
i decided to go and dance with the finest chick in the club
why did the girl ran across the club to pull me away from her and she was stuck to me at the hip

im telling u if i would have stood at the bar like a p u s sy she would have taken her sweet time coming back to me cuz i was put
now since she felt competition and held on to me
same thing will work for u

Answer 6

relies upon on how deep the aggravation runs, if that's putting you interior the detrimental homestead consistent with hazard you should face up and handle it. Like turn the single that is attempting to scouse borrow from you over to God. then no concerns. :D

Answer 7

I would move on. She sounds like she is high maintenance and a bit reckless when she's been drinking which ruins her credibility. Why put yourself through that? My ex was a lot like that and I had to move on. In fact, my ex has since gotten married and her husband is having a hard time with her. Poor guy! There are plenty of women out there that wouldn't treat you like that.

Answer 8

Your such a sop.

Call he up and tell her if she's going to "test the waters" then you can too.

Why'd you even agree?

ANY woman tells me that will get the boot. Too many girls out there to wait for one when she needs to go f*ck around to see if there's anyone for her better than you!

Tell you what, you go out and go get with someone and when you do, just tell her I've found someone and you can go test yourself out there all you want, cuz we're through.

I guarantee she'll come howling and begging, like the spoiled brat ***** she is.

Answer 9

I would run not walk so fast that it would make her head swim. Sounds like she has a double standard to me - I wouldn't stand for it. She will be a problem from now on. She wants to keep you on a string until she has time to play the field to see if she can drag in someone better (whether she admits it or not). If you stand for this, you will be left standing alone.

Answer 10

Due, you hit the nail on the head in your question, you already know what you have to do, don't try to justify your answer, you deserve better, your not a back burner kind of guy are you? I don't thing so, handle your business