I speak to him everyday and every night, I stay at his place one night during the week and spend most weekends with him. I notice that he gets a lot of texts, and calls from girls and that he is online with his personals sometimes. What should I do??
2006-10-30 06:53:04 · 11 answers · asked by taurusgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk to him about it and let him know that it makes you uncomfortable and if he really does not care then you need to be with someone that does. Good Luck.
2006-10-30 06:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about talk to HIM about it taurusgirl? Has he ever said you are exclusive? You should be able to assume so with the amount of time you spend together, but isn't the saying about assuming way too true? Talk to him, girl. If he isn't aware that there is a problem, he can't do anything to fix it...then again he may not want to. My mamma used to say, don't give away the milk, until he buys the cow. Well, I can tell you, it's true. If he's getting it all over, why does he need to be faithful to you? He may not realize that you are as serious as you seem to be. Best of luck dear. Nana
2006-10-30 06:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds sketchy. You should ask him about all these girls he's in touch with. Men who are in a serious, committed relationship don't receive a lot of texts and calls from girls, or get online with personals. If he likes having extra girls available to communicate with, you might want to think about how serious he is about you.
2006-10-30 06:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know about how you feel about this. You let him know that if he keeps taking calls from these girls and texts from these girls, then you will do the same. Taste of your own medicine is the cure for a problem. Or you can just get your friends to text you and call you and act like they are guys and see how he feels about this. He wont like it at all. When he comfronts you about this and how he feels about you getting texts and calls from guys, you say...oh, but you get calls from girls and texts too. See how fast he stops talking. he will stop getting those calls and texts though...try it, it works, me and my bf went through this in the beginning of our relationship and now we both dont do this.
Or you can just tell him to stop and mention that if you did the same thing, that he wouldnt agree with it.
Try any of these scenarios, one of them will work...
2006-10-30 07:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u with him?
or friend?
cuzz if u are with him talk to him about wuts going on with all the text n girls n if u feel that somthing just dont feel right then just brake up with him
and if u are friends with him then u should just keep it that way cuzz he seems like hes a ladies men
2006-10-30 06:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust him .. maybe bring it briefly up in conversation but don't blame him or moan at him .. these girl friends he gets calls from could just be that friends
2006-10-30 06:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by *~Ciara~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in for a stiff competition. Do not give in, play it to the last. Fight it out for him. If you have feelings for him, you ought to grab your chances.
Trust is the first requisite in any relationship. If you have trust and he is sincere, he would be yours.
2006-10-30 18:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are Bastards, he's proberbly having a great time on the side and then he has the security of having you when he wants.
2006-10-30 06:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by kiroc k-Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt fell ur presence anymore
i mean he hasent got the buterflyies in his tummy anymore
make him have them again and hell forget all about the others
2006-10-30 06:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by ala t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is not pretty, ask him about these contacts-if you have a problem about other friendships, see if he can limit while you are around-if more than friendships, you need to find one more devoted to you..
2006-10-30 06:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋