What should I do??

Question

I was chatting with a guy since February of this year and I felt in love for him. He is perfect! I´ve never meet him before.
I think that I´m not good enough for him. He´s 2 years older than me, and he already have his own business. I´m just a business student with many familiar problems and I don’t want to damage him.

I broke up with him by telephone. I said that we couldn’t have a relationship cuz he lives in another state… some days later he told me that he made a deal with a guy in S. Paulo and that he´ll moved to here! That wasn´t the first time that he changed something just for me.
Every night I go to bed thinking oh him and sometimes I can´t sleep. I´m blue for don´t have him beside me….What should I do??!!

Answer 1

Everyone has problems. And whoever says they don't is a liar. You are a student which means you are laying the groundwork to achiveve your goals. What about you is not good enough? If you don't think you are worthy why should he?

Answer 2

Stranger, you didn't say how old you are, and probably it doesn't matter. What is stopping you from having a fresh start with this person who may be the love of your life? So you have baggage, who doesn't? If you have ever loved and lost, you have baggage. It's time to move forward. If this baggage is holding YOU back, then get help NOW. Go to counseling for a bit, find a way to forgive those who have hurt you, for real and try to make it up to those you have hurt. If they are no longer around, then help someone else in what ever way you can, the point is do something about it. This guy is willing to move to be with you! That is a huge step, you must not be so bad, as you think. Give love a chance, stranger. Try to love yourself a lot more, while you are at it. Meanwhile, we will be here, wondering how it went! LOL. Loves to ya. Nana

Answer 3

I thought the same guy when I was chatting with a guy for a few months before we met. We ended up meeting and I realized that people on paper (or the internet) is not how they are in real life. Be careful!

Answer 4

I think you should give it a shot. TRUE Love is hard to find. But it might not be what you expect. Lots of problems might come up because of cultural differences. So, keep the communication line open.

Answer 5

well you two should try to see each other some how. arrange a flight and day that you two could finally see eahc other face to face and that is the only way that you2 will know wether you 2 are meant to be.

Answer 6

Go be with him. It is obvious that both of you care for one another, so stop thinking you aren't good enough for him. Everyone has problems (even your friend) and that's what friends are for -- to help one another through problems.

Answer 7

Girl he could be lying about everything. I would hate to see you on the news for bad judgement it's 2006 and your inlove with someone you've never met and found him on the internet. get it together plz!!

Answer 8

amor de lejos, son de pendejos. cherish what little you had and let it go. He's not perfect. feel better about yourself and find someone closer to home. Good luck.

Answer 9

talk to him and tell him how u feel, without sounding tooooo needy. just tell him how u really want to see him, when he comes talk to him and flirt with him and maybe he will stay!

Answer 10

GET BACK WITH HIM. YOU MAY NOT FEEL THAT YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH BUT HE FEELS YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND THAT IS WHAT COUNTS. IF YOU KEEP MAKING HIM JUMPTHROUGH HOOPS FOR YOU HE IS LIKELY TO WALK AWAY.