recently i'm getting feelings for gals also. i'm afraid that i'm turning into a bisexual. i dont wanna become one. help me .
2006-10-30 06:33:38 · 27 answers · asked by sunmon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am a heterosexual.but this is happening to me like recently.n i'm not a lesbian
2006-10-30 06:59:20 · update #1
Then don't act on those feelings. You can't always help how you feel, but you don't have to respond to how you feel. Do what you feel is right.
I personally don't approve of the gay/les/bi lifestyles. I know many people who are and few are happy. On the otherhand, I'd rather see my friends (and you) happy, and loving someone, ANYONE, rather than going through life hating themselves.
Don't beat yourself up for your feelings. Do what is right for you. You don't have to act out every feeling you have.
2006-10-30 06:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You obviously feel this way for a reason. I dont know your outlook on gays and bisexuals but i can guess that you dont have a good one. If you fight these feelings you have you will never truly be happy in life. It doesnt nessessarily mean you are turning into a bisexual, it could just mean your curious. Just explore your feelings.... it doesnt mean you have to have sex with a female, just dont be afraid of what your feeling.
2006-10-30 14:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Candace T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are it isn't something you can stop or change. It is in your make-up. Do some research and see what it is about. If you don't want to have those feelings towards gals then shut it off force yourself to turn away and get a complex about females. Then you may not be happy ever in your life but at least you won't be bi.
2006-10-30 14:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by vancie121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turning into? That's absurd! Either you are or you aren't. I always felt that bisexual meant greedy!! Pick one, for goodness sake!! Of course, that's just my opinion. I am privileged to be born female! I love my man. I feel so loved by him, and I can't imagine anything else. I pray you are able to stop your "transformation". Prayer really does change things!!!
2006-10-30 14:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by music 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret. We all fantasize some very strange things. It is acting on it that puts you in one of societies box.
Don't worry bout that either.
We have made false boxes to place people in a feeble attempt at identity.
Temptations and sexuality does not make the person.
2006-10-30 14:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know what to tell you
the best thing i can say is that many girls go through that
to some it may be a phase and to others it may be final
but the thing is that your not willing to make it perminent
so i think that you'll be just fine
2006-10-30 14:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unfortunately you can't change the way you feel. Especially about things like this. Just learn to accept the way that you feel and others will follow.
2006-10-30 14:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because u might have feelings or even a fantasy it doesnt mean you are lesbian or bisexual. you might fatasize about a robber breaking in a having sex with him but that doesnt mean u really want that to happen, even if you dream it, it doesnt necessarily mean anything
2006-10-30 14:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by t.marie1988 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people are attracted to people of the same sex on a certain level. Ask yourself if you are attracted to women because they are women or because u can connect more easily with them. It could be emotional and not physical.
2006-10-30 14:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Luken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't help what you are, if that's what floats your boat then more power to you. Sometimes it's just a phase, so play the field and if you like it, then go for it. If not then you don't have to worry about beomeing one.
2006-10-30 14:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋