I've been casually seeing this guy for almost 3 months. We hang out a few times a week, he takes me out and treats me, I treat him to dinner and what-not. We've taken things pretty far and he calls me regularlly. However, I dont' know where we stand, I don't know if he wants a relationship with me, I don't know where I stand with him? How do I approach this situation and ask him without being "needy" or "clingly"? I just want to know if there is a chance for us to be an official couple? When is a good time to ask??
2006-10-30 06:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 23 and he's 24, I know I should let this progress naturally, however, I just need suggestions on how to ask him if we are more or not.
2006-10-30 06:46:25 · update #1
You didn't say how old you were. In general it's best to let things develop naturally. But if you want something more "official" there's no reason you can't ask him what he's looking for in your relationship. If he can't handle what you want, then you have your answer.
2006-10-30 06:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is dating others. That would be a way to start out the conversation to lead to where you want it to go.
2006-10-30 14:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set your foot down and take the next step if thats what you want. Tell him how you feel and go fromt there.
2006-10-30 14:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice, you have to ask.
2006-10-30 14:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Todd V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋