I have a friend who recently met a guy at a dance event a couple months ago. They hit it off and since then have spent some quality time together. She went out of state and spent a weekend w/ him and his family and he's been in town a couple of times and stayed at her apartment. She hasn't had sex with him, (though he's tried several times), but they have been very close and intimate.
Granted, she doesn't see a future with him they do enjoy eachothers company and they do share common interests.
Anyway, he came into town this past weekend for another dance event and insisted that she be there for the show.
When she got there, she noticed he was w/ another girl. It was evident in the physical contact and gestures between the two that she was not just a friend.
They greeted eachother and that was pretty much it.
Now, she's angry. Should she say something to him or not? And if so, what?
2006-10-30 05:53:10 · 14 answers · asked by Petra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your friend doesn't see a future with him, what does it matter?
It's also evident that he set this up. He wanted her to see that she's not the only one. For this I say, a$$h0le alert.
He's playing and trying to get some and she's just caught in his little game.
Tell your friend to ignore him and move on.
2006-10-30 05:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't think she should say anything to him. he knew when he told her to be at the dance event that the other girl was gonna be there. he blew her off in the cruelest way possible. she shouldn't waste her time worried about this loser. she should be glad nothing more happened and move on to better things. what he did was disgusting and with blatant disregard for her feelings so why should she give him an explination he doesn't deserve? she should ignore him and leave him with what he left her....nothing.
2006-10-30 13:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by melanie c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to say something to him that's up to her. You should keep out of it and let her deal with it in her own way. If he insisted that she be there for the show, he may have meant with the other girl. She would be best to move on.
2006-10-30 13:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship wasn't going anywhere anyway, let him go.
He'll try to come back & say something about being confused, or not knowing if she wanted to get serious, yadda, yadda, yadda.
Let him go.
2006-10-30 13:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she angry, since she doen not have future in him, she should let it be.
the guy is a seasoning butterfly who is looking for flowers to fly on and suck their honey off, though as you said thy hasn't had sex,
so it better to let him go and she look for her own
2006-10-30 14:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no claims on him.
Dating is dating.
If she want to be something more between her this guy fine, but he needs to agree.
Maybe he's trying to make her jealous.
2006-10-30 14:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, get over it.
She played cool with him, when he made it obvious what he wanted. Now she has to live with it.
2006-10-30 13:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by lowflyer1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not see a future with him so she should let it be
2006-10-30 13:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't see a relationship with him anyway so why is she angry? Don't make sense.
2006-10-30 14:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg..i would probably be mad too..but she doesnt want him more than a friend, so, she shouldnt be mad..but she could of asked why he didnt tell her about the other girl!
2006-10-30 13:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋