Ok I had a girl friend and she broke up with me. She said because she wasn't feeling the love. But then I found out she cheated on me. Should I confront her and ask her about it or just let it die. Cause I love this girl. I need help.
2006-10-30 05:48:09 · 39 answers · asked by brandon_fargerson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shoo that's a real tough one. Follow your heart, if she is worth it you should fight to save the relationship. You sound genuine in saying you love her so you should sit her down and talk to her. BUT remember that she cheated once and may do it again....you sound like a decent bloke....perhaps you may realize you deserve better?? There are plenty girls out there looking for someone like you. But hey....follow your heart and you will very rarely go wrong:) Best of luck.....
2006-10-30 05:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Alright, I hate to break it to you like this but she wasn't feeling the love because she was cheating on you. I think you should just let things die. If she really loved you, she wouldn't have cheated on you or would have even explored the idea of cheating on you. I know it's difficult, but the best thing to do is move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-10-30 05:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you need to eventually confront her with this because you won't truly heal otherwise.
As for the girl, leave her, you don't love her, you are ust feeling like this because something is your life has been ripped from you forcibly and the void is causing emotional dramam inside.
Calm down. Feel the anger. Confront you feelings first, then confront her. You don't have to "tell her off" but your hurt should be expressed, and she has a responsiblility to at least listen.
2006-10-30 05:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone back who cheated on you? She'll just do it again. Though it will be hard, move on. I'm sure there's someone else out there who will appreciate what you have to offer. I would also consider the remark she made to you, and take a personal inventory of yourself, to make sure you were doing everything necessary to be a loving guy. Even though she's a cheat, there may be a little bit of truth in what she told you. <*)))><
2006-10-30 05:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get over it, she ain't worth your love. And if she cheated on you, she didn't love you no matter what she may have said. Tell yourself you deserve better. There are plenty of girls out there who would never cheat.
If you really need to, write her a letter with all your feelings and accusations and confusion. Then burn the letter. You'll have had a release, and come to a better understanding of your emotions, without embarassing yourself or making a bad situation worse.
2006-10-30 05:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are a young man with your whole life ahead of you....
In which case, my advice would be to let it go. If something is wrong in your relationship, and one of you has moved on.....you must also move on. As hard as it is to let go, LET GO!!
SHe broke up with you...that gives her a bit more power than you...don;t give her any more power by confronting her.....there is someone out there for every one!!
2006-10-30 05:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how this can feel on you and you might be very heartbroken but the real reason she broke up with you is because she wants to be with someone else or she wants to run around playing games but she'll realize she had someone good and come back if she doesn't she wasn't worth your time anyways. Find someone that wants to really be with you not someone that doesn't know what they want.
2006-10-30 05:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by dev'smummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should move on. Being in love doesn't mean that you should accept being disrespected. If she loved you, she should have been woman enough to tell you that the relationship wasn't working out, instead of cheating on you. Move on, you're bound to find someone else. Good luck.
2006-10-30 05:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go. She said she wasn't feeling the love, and she wasn't kidding that's why she cheated on you. Move on and find someone who "Feels" the love for you.
2006-10-30 05:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just let it die down... if she left you and you guys aren't arguing,KEEP it that way! If you go ask her about it , it would probably cause a fight and you guys may never talk again... if you make her mad you will know there is no chance of ever reconnecting with this girl... just brush it off and move on!
2006-10-30 05:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋