so this guy and i have liked eachother for... i dont know how long and we go ot different schools and we agreed that if we hangout a couple times and get to know eachother better then we can talk about having a relationship. well we hung out this weekend. we went to his friends house for a party and i didnt know anyone there. and i thought we were having a good time and we were flirting non stop then i was talking to him sunday night and he told me that he doesnt think im the girl he wants to go out with. he said it was because he hates having to explain everything to me and he said that when we were at his friends house he was trying to get a feel for my personality and that he doesnt feel like im someone that he can relate to, then he had the nerve to ask if we could still be friends, i was balling my eyes out but i did a good job at covering it up and acted like i was fine with everything. what should i do!?!i honestly thought he was different, he respects me and thats hard to find!
2006-10-30 05:26:05 · 5 answers · asked by yooo JUSTINE <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What did he mean by he hates explaining everything to you? Were you not getting what he was saying or his jokes? It looks like you two were trying to see if you were compatible and he doesn't think you are. So be glad he didn't drag you along and that he told you right away that he wasn't into you like that. Move on honey! There are plenty of other guys out there. Keep looking.
2006-10-30 05:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by julez_711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously never respected you in the first place if he lied to you about it over that period of time. best thing to do girl is move on, find someone worth your time. He was testing you by taking you to a party to see if you could chill and hang out with his friends. You felt uncomfortable, so he was probably looking for a party goer, which he obviously needs.. lord only knows why. You should have made him feel bad about making you cry, because he obviously didn't feel like it was worth the time to explain it to you.
2006-10-30 05:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by drowning_in_ur_truths 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on to someone better suited to you. It's better that he was upfront and honest with you although I know it hurt..it's better to know how he feels now instead of after dating a while. You will meet someone else who can relate to you and give you the respect you want and deserve.Be glad you didn't waste any more time on him.
2006-10-30 05:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you give respect you'll get it back from any guy... and it sounds to me like this jerk is playing hard to get... so let him... it's better if you walk away now... if anything you should have told him that you can't relate to him... anyways just move on guys are EVERYWHERE!
2006-10-30 05:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by candylbsb45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what it means, that is why you were crying. He rejected you and it hurt. Move on.
2006-10-30 05:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋