If you are in a relationship, that you have to work at. Not that you don't get along, but there is a lot of conflict and heated discussions. Do you think that this is where the fire and the passion stem from? or is all about chemisty and compatabilty?
2006-10-30 05:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm this is serious, firstly i will like to say this, that there is different between conflict and disagreement in any relationship,
yes it is true that in the course of knowing and understanding each other in relationship there a bounds of disagreement, because sometimes you disagree to be agree. but when the situation turn to conflict that boat of life may hit a rock and end up
there should be mutual understanding in every relationship that we engage ourself in.
i hope you find the best way to work out your relationship too
2006-10-30 05:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have fire and passion without conflict and disagreement!
Conflict leads to stress and emotional arguments, neither of which is good for a relationship. Arguments will happen, but they must be resolved at some point and on some level. I think it's interesting that you didn't mention love and respect, though. You absolutely have to have those, and they are totally compatible with fire and passion.
2006-10-30 13:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think so. . Every relationship needs a lot of work to grow and prosper but conflicts and heated discussions will not make it stronger or more passionate
2006-10-30 13:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to chemistry and compatibility. Having lots of arguments and calling that "passion" is false - that's just a nice way for people to make sense of their miserable relationships and find a tiny bit of hope in a not-meant-to-be situation. I've known my husband for 3 years and we've never had an argument.
2006-10-30 13:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you call "fire and passion" is largely hormonal. You will find that it cycles back and forth between strong and weak. That's why relationships built on passion almost never last. Passion is inconsistant.
Interestingly, emotional responses to "love stimuli" (self-sacrificing behavior of your mate for your benefit) can powerfully affect hormonal cycles and reignite the passion. This works similarly to your "fight or flight" responses that are based on primal fear. Consequently, your passion will diminish if "love stimuli" cease, just as "fight or flight" only results from fear stimuli.
2006-10-30 13:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people thrive on a heated exchange of ideas and concepts. But if your conflict is in personal areas, if you don't have some basic shared assumptions about life, love, marriage, family, work, faith and so on---those are red flags!
2006-10-30 13:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by ragged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, but I am hoping that we fight b/c we're just learning each other and trying to figure out things. He tells me that he has never fought over stuff like this before, so in turn, I try and tell myself, "Well, that's why you guys weren't very close to begin with for 6 years." People fight. It's how you talk about it is what the big deal is and how you resolve it with each other! Do you agree? Oh, that's me asking you a question....sorry.
2006-10-30 13:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
conflict is not a good thing in a relationship unless you like being miserable. how about common interests ~~ that's where the fire is!!
2006-10-30 13:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is funny you ask that because every time I get mad at my husband he says how much it turns him on. I don't get it?! So I guess the answer to that is it's possible. It does turn some people on.
2006-10-30 13:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you for the 2 points ! keep asking again...
2006-10-30 13:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by mammus007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋