Sometimes in a relationship there is a subject that can be trivial, and that is "guy friends." Now this is a very touchy subject, and my thought on this is that there is no such thing as a guy friend. My reason is that if your girlfriend has "guy friends" you don't know, it makes you uneasy and possibly jealous, and we know you ladies don't like that. Anyway, my deal is that guys will of course be friends with girls in relationships because they hope that they might catch them on the rebound or if the two get into an argument, and the girl then goes to the "guy friend" to talk to, of course the guy is going to say, this guy isn't good for you, you deserve better, thus making him look better than her boyfriend. My question is, (finally) what is your take on this?
2006-10-30 05:21:47 · 10 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do not believe in the theory of MALE friends (for women) or FEMALE friends (for men),... the bottom line in my experience is that usually, one or the other, really wants more than a friendship. Also, we are built PHYSICALLY different ~ and that friendship(?) scale can be tipped at any time!! I don't buy that!!
2006-10-30 05:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people are serious about each other then they can not have friends of the opposite sex. It just never works out and never ends up being a good thing. Women get jealous if men have girls as friends and vice versa. Have friends, but keep them the same gender. Sorry, but I have had male friends and even though I wasn't attracted to them sexually, they all tried to make a pass at some point. Never a good idea. Thank you.
2006-10-30 05:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have guy friends because girls can't trust other girls. So they say they have girl friends, but none of them trust them. Guys are a lot easier to get along with for girls. If you keep thinking about it, then it can drive you crazy. and if you can't handle it, then maybe your self esteem is low. If you are with a girl who has guy friends, try being their friend as well, and be cool with them. That way they will be on your side in the case of an argument or a break up.
2006-10-30 05:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing goes for girl friends. I totally understand your view point on it though. I am jealous and uneasy about girls my potential boyfriend is talking to. You have every right to suspect, but if it gets too out of hand, why stay in the relationship if you can't trust her?
2006-10-30 05:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by drowning_in_ur_truths 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been a believer in platonic friendships between men and women. "Dat ol' debbil sex" always enters in, sooner or later. Yes, sometimes guys try to hang around as "friends" waiting for an opening. When two people are serious about each other, best to let the "friends" go for awhile.
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2016-10-21 00:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by lindgren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive always had alot of guy friends i get along with them better than girls girls can sometimes very very sneaky and two faced "no offense" and my guy friends have NEVER tryed to catch me on the rebound or hook up with me they were truly my friend and treated me like one of guys and always gave me a call for some all night ps2 wwe fun XD they included me everything and never gave ill advice about a boyfriend just so they could look better in my eyes
2006-10-30 05:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by tabethamarie2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, we ladies do have guys who are just "friends"... it is possible for a guy and a girl to be just friends.. as a matter of fact, i myself have a best friend whose a guy... we talk about everthing and he does not talk to me in a way that he wants to get with me... and yes there are some guys that are my friends and to them it would mean the world if i were to accept them as my boyfriends.... a girl will always have both guys who want them and guys who are their friends... u just have to learn to trust ur girl and know thatif she really is into u then her friends are just friends.
2006-10-30 05:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's funny because my boyfriend says the same thing and i do agree with you because some guys are actually like that but some are not we do have our good guys who just want to be friends but your a guy and your keeping it real i like that
2006-10-30 05:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends or guy friends it doesnt matter if the friend has been around longer than you no need to worry. if the friend came about the same time as you or after you then worry.
2006-10-30 05:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋