theres this boy that i like and i dunno if he likes me and so i wrote him a note and it said..
jake,
do u like me?
victoria
and people keep going up to him and asking him if he likes me and i dont want him to be presured.
what should i do. just go up to himand ask him if he likes me orhave everyone presuring us.
we've only talked like, 2 times and i dont want him to think im a freak.
?????ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 05:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest and straightforward...
2006-10-30 05:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jesse 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try and get him alone some time. Maybe you can get his IM or something & arrange to meet him somewhere, but private where not too many of ur school friends go. Then you just need to be honest with him. There's no point draging this out and making school hell for both of you. You need to decide whether you are a couple or not then you can tell your friends...
2006-10-30 05:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have already given him a note, then he knows how you feel and has not turned you down. He might feel the same way as you, he may also be shy about it because of the pressure. So I suggest that you take the first step and go up to him and ask him.
2006-10-30 05:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Only Sometimes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be too needy. Obviously he already knows you like him because you have already written the note and other people are pressuring him about it. Just back off and let him make the next move or you will appear to be too clingy, especially since the two of you have only talked twice. If he likes you, you talk about it with you. If he doesn't like you back he will most likely not do anything about it.
2006-10-30 05:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by yumsorbet 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U worry too much. Just go up to him and tell him that you would like to meet up for a drink with some friends....
2006-10-30 05:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by alec c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the pressure is a bad thing from other ppl, go and talk to him urself, if he is pressured by others, he'll just say no to get them to leave him alone, if u come to him in person, he will be more likely to answer truthfully
2006-10-30 05:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well dear you have done your job by writing in to him your feelings and if he is a real man he shall come back to you else he was never yours , forget him !!!!!!!! if he doesnot returns , there are plenty of other fish in the market.
2006-10-30 05:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a nut shell, go and talk to the guy. At least that way you'll get a definitive answer...
2006-10-30 05:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by pab76 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Plz ask him that you loves him if you did,nt so time will come he will be in some one arms and you cannot bear that so d,nt waste ur time and ask him that you loves him.
:If you love him truly,you will got him:do,nt worry about that but ur love should not be water drop on leaf.
2006-10-30 05:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by chatscores 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i done the same thing! he never liked me though,i barely knew him though
i think he'd rather u go up 2 him and talk 2 him! put urself in his position,quite frightening!
hope it helps xox
2006-10-30 05:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should of went to him in the first place instead of wrriting a note.
2006-10-30 05:23:44 · answer #11 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋