I'm single.. got to know a married gal when she was away from her husband.. we both were good friends for 3 months and we cared for each other a lot.. now she has gone back to her husband.. we both feel that we are emotionally attached and are in love with each other..
we both want to be together.. but whenever we discussed indirectly , she said leave it to fate.. I told her that i will accept watever decision she takes.. she always say dont decide.. leave it to fate.. now i dont know what to do.. whether i should move on or wait for her or talk to her directly..
2006-10-30 05:20:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are pursuing a losing battle. By the passage of time she would be engrossed in her family and her husband and you would remain stranded.
Recognise the facts and reality. Look for other avenues. Morally too, it is unfair to break a family. Be sane and move away.
2006-10-30 20:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON
"Leave it to fate" Are you kidding me?! That's not how fate works, she either makes a decision to leave the hubby and be with you, or she decdes to stay with hubby. She sounds incredibly selfish. I mean I respect that she's trying to make the marriage that she commited to work, but that is so mean for her to expect you to wait around.
You need to move on. And if it is fate for you 2 to be together, then maybe you'll bump into each other when you are both single in a few years. Don't waste your life on this woman!
2006-10-30 13:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's stand point:
She keeps telling you to "leave it to fate" because she's confused about what SHE wants to do! Don't let her dictate to you! What y'all need to do is sit down and talk this thing out: I hate to say it but you should confront her with an ultimatum and tell her that she has a choice While she's at home with the hubby who's by himself? YOU ARE!!!! It's not fair to you!
Don't be naive about the situation; either make it do what it do or move on! Life is tooooooooooooooooo short to ponder over someone who's not ready!
-Good Luck
2006-10-30 13:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by TruDiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ofcousre move onn and leave the rest up to fate. if u both r supposed to b together then u both will b by any means, so just move on & blive in fate.
2006-10-30 13:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her constant reaction of "leave it to fate" is either her way of avoiding the decision totally or keeping you on standby.If she did indeed love you AND herself she would tell her husband whats going on for his sake and hers and be with you.
2006-10-30 13:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by con10twithlosing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a clear cut No from her... forget about her and live your life cheerfully... and let her live in peace... have sympathy for her husband... what is his fault?
Do not leave it to fate... decides right away to live your life independently...
2006-10-30 13:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fate is she is staying with her husband, move on!
2006-10-30 13:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you both made a mistake.
Move on, you both had a fling.
Tell her and move on. Then forget the whole thing. It was good for both while it lasted.
2006-10-30 13:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave it to fate. Leave it to her husband.
2006-10-31 13:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by cyberkrishnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... don't get tangled up in somthing as messy as this could be
2006-10-30 13:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋