Heres the deal....I play in a band, im a wonderful person, but all the girls i meet are drunk when i talk to them, want to screw on the 1st night and i just want someone i can talk to basically, ive been done my share of dating and hooking up and im tired of this ****, i just wanna someone i can get to know, kiss, and tell wonderful things to, write songs for them, poetry, cook dinner for, compliment, of course all of this in return, except for the song part, and i just cant find anyone in this town, i dont know what the problem is, im 5'10", brown curly/wavy hair, brown eyes, olive skin tone, half spanish, fluent in spanish, in a band, have a full time job(9-5) w/ college degree, aspirations, intelligent, and i cant find anyone in Charleston, SC. Too many college girls here and too many gold diggers, why cant i find a decent girls with ok looks, great personality thats now so crazy Seriously, im not lonely, just want something new and different. Bottom Line: tired of hookin up.
2006-10-30 05:12:11 · 8 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try a fat chick!
They would rather talk, they more often have a job and pay for their own stuff, they more often are grateful for a hot guy, more respectful, and many are gorgeous! (not to mention, you get a great set of boobs with them!)
2006-10-30 05:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The facts you gave us are completely unrelated to your question, thus people think your conceited You just want to point out that you have a nice condo and car. Anyways some girls don't mature as quickly, when i was 18 i acted better than my 20 year old friend while my 17 year old friend acted better than i did. You get it, or you may be playing around with the wrong girls. Maybe you should go out of your comfort level and start asking out girls you don't usually date. Who knows you may surprise your self.
2016-05-22 11:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur looking for girls in the wrong type of place... Bars and where ever your band plays probably gets a lot of that type of girl. Maybe try going to a coffee house and making conversation. You sound like a great guy so just keep looking, I'm sure she's out there for you.
2006-10-30 05:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will come to find out that every where you go girls are the same. So pick a drunk at a show and wait till she sobers up and see if she is still a slut and a dumb A**. If she is try this technique over and over till you find a reasonable girl after she sobers up.
2006-10-30 05:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would be hard if one were in a band playing for drunks to begin with. Find another line of work, if that's impossible just continue turning down the drunken fans.
I'm sure somewhere you'll find someone who'll like you for you and not want to jump you first time they see you.
2006-10-30 05:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try meeting ppl outside a bar/club atmosphere. Yes, in a bar all you are going to find is easy sluts. What did you expect to find there...the girl of your dreams....hahaha. Sorry but, i think your out of luck there. Best of Luck.
2006-10-30 05:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't find a decent girl, because you are an incredible jerk. Only a girl with no self esteem and no self respect would hang out with a guy like you. Stop being such an jerk and you might find yourself a nice girl.
2006-10-30 05:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know how you feel, the men I meet are the same way.
2006-10-30 05:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by ayasha_sprow 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋