i got drunk the other night and i confessed my love to this guy ive been seeing and i dont know but i think he feels the same way but now its akward talking to him what should i do?
2006-10-30 05:09:32 · 25 answers · asked by Suzie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asked me about it a bit ago and said "u were a bit drunk last night werent u?" and i played it up saying "how did u know i was drunk" and he said" you IMed me" and i said "oh yah sorry" and then we stopped talking
idk lolollll should i bring it up again to clear things up?
2006-10-30 05:30:44 · update #1
Don't mention what happened---he may have already chalked it up to inebriated talk. Just continue as before, be cool; try not to let it happen again, at least until he has told you he loves you too!
2006-10-30 05:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by ragged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him you are sorry and alcohol does strange things to people! Then maybe you can get into what you said deeper and he may respond better if you take the spotlight off him. Meaning he may feel real relaxed with you starting the conversation out about what happened. Also let him know you are a nice girl and you don't let things happen out of your control usually! Your drunk night was just a fluke!!! Good luck!
2006-10-30 05:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by sweethometexas2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel that way about him it isn't an uh oh at all. you told him how you felt and that's how it should be. It's fine! Calm down. If he likes you adn you two are ment to be just talk to him and way umm about the other night with the stuff I said...did that make you uncomfortable. And apologize right after that. He'll either say it's fine or tell you not to be sorry cuz he feels the same way too. Hope that helps!
2006-10-30 05:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drunk love usually isn't taken seriously. I would ask him how he really feels when you both are sober. Bring it up, tell him you want to clear things up, because you were both drunk, and your not sure how he took it. I am sure it will work out, you wre telling him you love him, at least you weren't telling someone else. ha ha
2006-10-30 05:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just act as if absolutely nothing happened. Time will sort it out. Be normal, friendly, not pushy. Above all don't refer to that conversation again - he'll assume it was the drink talking and may think you've already forgotten it.
2006-10-30 05:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love conquers all. If you think he feels the same, then dont worry about talking to him about it. When we get drunk, sometimes our true feelings come out. Talk to him when you two are alone.
2006-10-30 05:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by malu622 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i kno wat u mean, i got drunk and texted all that stuff and more to this girl i luv... luv iz awkward and many that have experience know that u tend to tell many truths when ur drunk, i eventually went against every bone in my body and talked with her about it, im still waiting for a response hopefully tonight, if u really luv him just talk to him about it and go from ther
2006-10-30 05:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you were tipped up and that you don't know why you said that, but you hope he will for give you for scaring him if you did and hope it won't change things between you and hope he can act like it never happened, and if he really likes you like that then he will question you by asking well did you really mean it or why do you want me to forget it. then just ask him well how do you really feel about this relationship.and if he does like you like that then tell him the truth about how you feel. good luck =}
2006-10-30 05:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him. Tell him that's how you honestly feel and you hope that it won't push him away. Don't apologize. Those are your feelings and you should never be sorry about your feelings.
2006-10-30 05:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he never said it back, pretend like you never said it and that you don't remember saying it....you were drunk.
2006-10-30 05:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋