It sounds crazy but I can't get over my girlfriend's two ex boyfriends. She only slept with 2 other guys before me and I feel angry sometimes thinking that she had intimate moments with them. Why do I feel this way? I know I had no control over that but I still get mad/jealous. She's an awesome girl, she never cheated on any of her two ex boyfriends and she never gives me a reason to doubt her. She's very faithful and gives all her 200% love to me and I do the same. We've been going out for almost a year now and we plan to get engaged in a year and married in 3-4 years. I just want to get those feelings/thoughts out of me, those feelings of anger that she shared those intimate moments with other guys before me. I am a very good looking guy and successful young person so I know I'm way better looking and successful than them. I have had also slept with five before her so it's not like that's the issue. My past relationships have only been because of sex.Please help me Thank you
2006-10-30 05:09:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you do is you GET OVER IT!!! PLAIN AND SIMPLE AS THAT!
everyone has a past. but what you are concerned about is the PRESENT!!!
2006-10-30 05:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey wassup David! My name is Melody from St. Louis and I'm gonna do my best to answer your question. The girl that you are with seems great! I do not know her like that, but based on what you're saying she was honest from the get-go about telling you that she has been intimate with other men. Big, big, big A+! So you two seem like you got the whole telling the truth thing down pat. Now, the reason you feel angry about her being with other guys like that is because deep down you feel that you should have been the one she gave her love too and vise-versa. So, I think that if you had to do it all over again, you would want to be with her and only her. And I'm sure if you ask her she will tell you the same thing. In this day and age it is so hard to find true love the first time, but i know that you are glad that you are with someone that respects you and will love you no matter what, and that what you two got is genuine. What better way to seal that love than to finally settle down! Hope i didn't sound to cheesy with that last line. Good luck man! Hit me back with how everything turns out! Just e-mail me at mtmgirl212004@yahoo.com. Peace out!
2006-10-30 05:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Melody M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over it. You said so yourself, you slept with other women regardless of whether it was just for sex or not. Makes no difference. The issue lies with you not your g/f. The good thing is you acknowledge the situation. Maybe seeking professional help may help but I don't think it is necessary. Think about how much you love this girl and if it means forgetting about her past and looking into the future then that is exactly what you got to do.
2006-10-30 05:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally it takes years and years of alchohol abuse to die from such a cause. My ex mother in law is a total alchoholic, drinks captain morgans rum every morning, afternoon, and night, and she is still ticking. An 18 year old could not possibly have had time to drink enough to die of liver failure strictly from drinking. I would say there is most likely some other underlying cause. And of course it is not his fault. Im sure he is upset, but ... it is his *ex* girlfriend, and if they were only together a few weeks, it does not sound all that serious. He will get over it in time.
2016-05-22 11:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend can't change her past. She's with you know and I'm sure if she met you sooner you would be the only guy she would ever want to be with. If you focus to much on her past you will never get to knowhat could be in your future.
2006-10-30 05:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by angelina m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you know the only solution is to kill them........erase all evidence of their existence........then you may finally find peace.
2006-10-30 05:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by funkyk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
great story. hang on......
2006-10-30 05:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by mammus007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋