I have a boyfriend, and we are about four months, he has cheated on me before, and has appoligized. I sometimes think he means it but other times i dont. He holds hands with my friend, and his excuse is "she looks lonely". He tells me all the time he loves me, and i do know i love him back. i do trust him, but the trust isnt full like it used to be. Most of his friends are girls, and he has girls over at his apartment alot, his brother is home, and his brother is always finding condom wrappers, my boyfriend is always saying they are for self pleasure, Do you think he is cheating? and is there anyway i can find out?
2006-10-30 05:07:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love him alot, and he made me get over a boyfriend i had before him, and i had been single for a long time since i wasnt fully over my ex, and many guys have tried, but he was the only successful one.
2006-10-30 05:14:30 · update #1
also would you consider makeing out cheating?
2006-10-30 05:17:05 · update #2
DUMP HIM!!! He cheated on you before 4 months. He is holding hands with your friend because he is a "player", most of his friends are girls who are over at his apartment a lot, his brother finds condom wrappers (I have never heard of a man who uses a condom to pleasure himself!! Ever!!) He is cheating. You already know that. Dump him and find someone who really loves you and is faithful. They're out there. They're just not a dime a dozen.
2006-10-30 05:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say, once a cheater always a cheater. Not always the case, of course, but if he's going to do that to you after only a few months I would get out of the relationship. Better now, than after being married four years right? You deserve better, girl!
2006-10-30 13:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Katie Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to your own question. Loose the Looser Hunn! Its not worth it, find someone who values you. He obviously doesn't. He is sooooo cheating on you, and his excuses sound as pathetic as he is. U can do much better. Never take a man back after he's cheated, Its like your sayin' "its okay if you cheat, as long as you say sorry"
2006-10-30 13:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Curlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl don't even think he's being 4 real this time if he cheated on u b4. Just dump him is all that's happening right now isn't rue and he really loves you he'll go back with you...but don't wait until he tells you that's he's cheating on you because he never will.
2006-10-30 13:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by ***i <3 Mi BABi*** ^:J&K:^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don;t use condoms for self pleasure that's BS. He's cheating on you and deep down you know it. He's a player. Dump him and don't let him hurt you anymore than what he already has. He's smart with his mouth but he can't control his d**k
2006-10-30 13:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you just leave him. You have so many information to break the relationship. Even if you see him on some girl making love? what is going to change in his behavior /another excuse/.
This is only four months to give up, not four years.
2006-10-30 13:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can tell you that he is not using condoms to pleasure himself!
It sounds to me like there is a good chance he is cheating!! Why do you want to put yourself through finding out! If you feel like he is being dishonest and not respectful of your feelings, walk away!
2006-10-30 13:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is cheating. If he has before he will again. Move on!!! He may love you, but he will always cheat on you...why? because he can. You teach people how to treat you and you allowed him to get away with it before. I know it is hard, but kick him to the curb. Good luck!
2006-10-30 13:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your going through, I say DON'T TRUST HIM!!! Think he has girls over, condoms,and he cheated. If he's done it once before he's bound to do it again. You don't need him, seriously
2006-10-30 13:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by NAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a self centred bastard. if he loves you, why does he not consider your feelings AT ALL? what kind of loser would waste all of his money on having a posh **** every night? you haven't been with him for long enough to forgive him for cheating. to cheat within 4 months of being with someone is a MASSIVE sign of disrespect. he honestly cannot love you at all. do yourself a favour and dump him. you'll thank yourself for it, believe me.
2006-10-30 13:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by livingthelie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋