2006-10-30 05:05:49 · 40 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The hardest thing I ever had to do for love was, change my personality....just so he would stay in love with me....That was the biggest mistake I have ever made....I found out then and there that I did not have to change for nobody...if he didnt love me for me, than he didnt love me at all......
2006-10-30 05:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Prove myself just for not her but for o.p.(other people)
Seems like more often these days people don't make their own decisions, they depend on their friends and family, to make their choices for them.
The one girl I loved for five years I was always fighting to prove myself to her mother who hated me. Probably because she was no longer a virgin, and also she was no longer her innocent daughter. She had become a woman.
....Shortcut to now, women I date - its like going to an interview at a corporate office. You have to answer questions from the other friends, and everyone must say okay. So many girls I've tried to start seeing have not even let me in to have that first date because their friends say no, or their parents disagree.
The hardest thing I have ever done is pretty personal, but the overall factor is to try to be superman when I am actually just clark kent.
2006-10-30 05:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared to leave. Some people are like children and only treat you decent if they think you could walk away from them. If they believe you are completely devoted to them, then they allow themselves to be mean for no good reason, because they are spoiled and have no self control. The only way for me to have a decent relationship with that particular boyfriend was to no longer commit myself to him and always be prepared to leave. Not the best relationship, but you do what's worth it to you, and I learned a lot about self reliance in the process. I also learned about what's really important to me in a relationship.... mutual adoration and enthusiasm to learn how to support each other. A real friendship, first and foremost, passion second.
2006-10-30 05:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of an ex harassing me, I had to tell the one person i knew I couldn't live without to wait for me, because I wanted to make things right and find a way to get rid of the guy harassing me so that it was fair for both of us, and he didnt have to worry about an overbearing ex boyfriend. It took a little while, and he understood, and it worked out in the end, but it was so hard, because I wanted to be with him then and there, and I didnt want either of us to have to wait for me because my baggage was trying to come back. Now we are perfect and very much in love. In the long run it was good for us to wait and get rid of that situation.
2006-10-30 05:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should be easy, but the hardest thing I ever had to do is take a loved one to jail. They deserved it (DUI)
2006-10-30 05:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by arenaimage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to a whole new state, about 2-3,000 miles form where I lived. Just to possible get hurt in the end. Go figure.
2006-10-30 05:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brittney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him think he won. Knowing full well he was lied to and is living a lie every day. I was lied to as well and didnt put it all together until it was too late. Two friends wanted to see us split so they could have their own way with us and they got us! We believed it all. How sad that we could not have more open to eachother and talk. I suffer always...I am sad every day...I just wish he knew...
2006-10-30 05:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by bbmk333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love for whom ? Spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/mother/father/son/daughter ?
There's no 'hardest thing' in love !
2006-10-30 05:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go against what everyone else thought was right to marry the man I love (been married now for 10 years)
2006-10-30 05:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by his_scarlett_ohara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of the one you love
2006-10-30 05:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋