earlier i ran into the mother of my friend who is an extremely intelligent, good-natured and sensitive girl but whose life is not working out. she suffers from severe depression and there may also be something else. I know where it comes from; the relationship with her mom. It makes me so depressed to know it may be too late. I've tried to help her but either her mom intervenes or she just doesn't have enough strength to pursue a path to a brighter future and she is already 26. I won't go into detail regarding everything about her life because it would be too long but it breaks my heart to know that somebody so beautiful could have a completely different life if they were brought up in a healthy family environment (she can't study, doesn't go out, she's always at home or at the doc's.
What are your thoughts on that & remember - you can't judge someone's life from your perspective and the kind of person you are. Some people just can't try as hard as you can no matter what.
Thanx.
2006-10-30 04:35:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
She sounds broken. I was broken once. I found my healing through Jesus Christ. I feel for your friend, I know where she is. It's not a fun place, no matter how happy you try to look on the outside. She has no hope. Perhaps, if you are a Christian, you could show her the hope she has in Christ. If you're some other religion, sho her the hope she has in your faith. If neither of you has any sort of faith, I encourage you to find a Bible and find a women's study group to try out.
2006-10-30 04:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by shojo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her read the book the Four Agreements from Don Miguel Ruiz..
Love
PS You can free yourself from energetic cords from the people around you by forgiveness.. Also you can use a blue laser light (imagine it burn away the cords as you remember painful events..) or the violet flame (I AM a being of violet fire, I AM the purity God desires..(works very well with depression, repeat over and over and see the flame burn all karmic luggage away...it transmutes, it helps with depression and regaining innocence..)
Last but not least Christ will love you free if you call His Name..
2006-10-30 12:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Paradise Regained 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it takes getting to the lowest point in your life to be able to surrender yourself and ask God to take over and lead in the path of righteousness! Hardships can be blessings in disguise, teaching us to depend on Jesus Christ our Savior and in return receiving eternal life.
I'll pray that God touches this woman's life and you can do the same.
God Bless!
2006-10-30 12:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Buff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋