Well Av Been With Him 4 5 munth now.Hes spending alot more time with my friends than me. He doesnt talk 2 me any more any And he keeps giving me funny looks, things arent how they used 2 b.What should i do b cos its really bugging me ??
2006-10-30 04:12:14 · 14 answers · asked by chloe_fukin_ess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be like WTF is going on. If he is haning out with YOUR friends, why don't you talk to YOUR friends and be like why are you hanging out with him. If I were you, I would just be done with it. YOu have only been together for a short time. Plus, I wouldn't trust your friends too much if they are being all secretive.
2006-10-30 04:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and if nothing changes leave him alone you guys only been seeing each other for a little while so it should be easier to let go I wasted 8yrs of my life on a relationship that wasnt worth 8yrs of my time and now im hurt and those 8yrs i couldve been happy with someone else never settle for less you deserve the best good luck
2006-10-30 04:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by WeFlyHigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be direct, have questions, and ask him...
now, on a side note, don't be accusatory! he'll get defensive and you don't want that at all... try to keep the focus on you...
an example of a bad question is
What's wrong?
an example of a good questions is
What's changed with me that you don't seem to want to spend time with me, just my friends?
oh yea, and the tone of voice you use makes a difference too, don't sound negative to much... don't sound pleading... your asking honest questions, that should help both of you...
2006-10-30 04:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is checking out one of your g/fs? Ask him if he is happy in the relationship. Ask him what he likes and dislikes about your relationship.... Ask him what he sees the future to be... You'll get a pretty good idea on what's on his mind if you ask him these things
2006-10-30 04:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him, tell him how you feel. Make sure you do it when you two are alone, and away from your friends. If he doesn't start paying more attention to you, let him know its going to be over.
2006-10-30 04:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him for starters. Explain your concerns and listen to his. It might not be as bad as you think. Good luck.
2006-10-30 04:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think tht there is some misunderstanding , so its better if u talk to him directly before the problem gets huge. good luck.
2006-10-30 04:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't care and get a new bf.
2006-10-30 04:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetteach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask him.. ..
to be honest it doesn't sound like he's really into you.. otherwise he'd talk to you..
2006-10-30 04:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him befor you lose him
2006-10-30 04:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by stuckbetweenlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋