My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and recently he has been acting like nothing matters to him and every time that we talk on the phone he always seems to want to cut the conversation short. I've called him a few times while he was at his house, and I hear a female voice in the background. I ask him who is it and he says that it's just the tv, but I can tell that it's not the tv. What should I do?
2006-10-30 04:06:51 · 11 answers · asked by Elena P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds very suspicious. Get serious with him and express how you've been feeling about his behavior. Really give him the opportunity to tell you what's going on. You'd rather if he was honest and straight forward. If he continues to deny any of this, then you might consider breaking up with him. If he can't even talk to you, then you know he can't be trusted. What is a relationship without trust, right? Good luck.
2006-10-30 04:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact 'Cheaters'! Just kidding.
Well whether or not he's cheating on you, sounds like your communication and conversation is hurting anyways.
Don't beat around the bush with your feelings and when he answers the phone, just tell him how you feel immediately before he has a chance to cut you off.
He could be cheating on you, but he might not be. The problem is that he is not giving you the attention that you need or want. Talk to him about it. If he still not caring enough to give you the time of day, he is not the right person for you.
You should keep your options open and date people.
2006-10-30 04:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women were given the gift of intuition,If you feel he is cheating well he most likely is. But to be sure go to cheater.com they have a questioner that should help. I know just what you feel like. It really sucks, get it over with fast and move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 04:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, then ask him straight up "are you seeing someone else". If you don't get a good answer, ask for a break and see how things go from there. It does sound pretty iffy to me.
2006-10-30 04:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by OE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to wonder then he's not your boyfriend---move on and avoid the drama and heartache. Focus your life on positive activities and adventures, (and people), and don't be playing games with yourself and others.
2006-10-30 04:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he says its the tv, say ok, end the conversation, and then drive over there and catch him in the act
2006-10-30 04:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set some worgs on him! You already know what's going on!
Seriously, though, if there is this little trust in your relationship, it's time to move on.
2006-10-30 04:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if is seeing someone else....be real with him.
2006-10-30 04:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by careful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over naked give him the ride of his life
2006-10-30 04:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real proof! If it is true, then you loose him!
2006-10-30 04:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋