Last Saturday night was the first time we hung out since my ex broke up with me at the end of July. I wasn't planning on going until he said this would be his last night in town since's moving up north, & wanted to see me. He had a huge smile on his face when he finally spotted me, gave me a huge hug. Talked about WI Badgers, and how 2 tixs are going for $500.00. I said that was a lot. Said he would spend that amount of money on me if I would attend a game with him. I said I would think about it. He also wants me to go up north to see the house he bought along the river with a view of lake Michigan. Wants to take me out to dinner and show me around the town. Says I would be the most beautiful girl up there, and that guys wouldn't be able to take there eyes off of me. Then he started rubbing my leg occasionally along with holding my hand. When I left, he looked like he wanted to kiss me. Do just guy friends want to spend this amount of time and money on a girl? Is this normal?
2006-10-30 04:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Cece 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's the one who broke up with me. It was ugly and repairing that friendship took some time. I went to Canada for over a week. The night I came back, he called me up right away. He wanted to move from WI down to FL. Felt my parents would stand in the way of me moving down there. I never once opposed that decision. He changed his mind at the last minute to a town an hour away where he owns several properties. He told me if he moved to FL, he would never come back. I think never seeing me again had something to do with it. He had a job lined up with a friend in real estate making over $100,000/yr. He also has family in FL. He's asked me why having children is so important to me. When I checked my cell phone to see if I missed any calls, he sounded jealous when asking why. If he strictly wants sex, why not with some random chic who paws him? Girls were literally hitting on him when we were at the bar. He would put his arm around me, and they would get the hint to leave.
2006-10-30 04:39:59 · update #1
Becareful, he is not your bf any more.
I'm not sure how you 2 split, but if it was from him, than think very careful, cuz maybe he just wants to get laid.
Talking sweet stuff are easy to do. It's all the action that counts.
If he really wants to get the ticket, he would.
If he wants to be back with you, he'll tell you.
Don't do anything from your side. Do what friends would do, but don't cross the line until you know that he's definately back with you, and spend more than a month after he told you that he really wants you back in his life.
He does miss you, but if you are easy to go back to him in this stage, he will be using you from now on, very easily!
2006-10-30 04:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the factors of the break up. If it was a bad break up, and his fault, either way, I would think you shouldn't get back with him. But the truth is that a ex never can be 100% a friend. Your past relationship will always be on his mind, weither he give advice, or just normal confersation. A real friend could spen that much money, but a ex couldn't with out some other reason in mind.
2006-10-30 04:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by joseph c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm....it is easy to say that he doesn't want to be just friends. But what is hard to say is if he wants to be in a relationship with you or just sex. You had me leaning towards the relationship end up until you said the part about him rubbing your leg....then I thought, oh yeah...he just wants to get him some. Also, he sure seems to be proud of his money. People that usually have money don't have to flaunt it. So that seems shady also. Be weary of this one.
2006-10-30 04:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-25 17:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm perfectly clear to me. guys don't spent money on women they don't want to be with especially that kind of money. "Guy friends" don't rub legs for no reason either. Oh by the way he wants you to like it there because he wants you to move there with him.
2006-10-30 04:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by deniver2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-30 04:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋