I'm really starting to want to. Chances are 1 in 100 that we'll get back together because of my friend butting in trying to help, more but ruining it. The problem is it's extra hard to get over him since we dated 2 years. What should I do? It's not right to just zoom to another guy, right? I don't where the hell to find one since all the guys that live around here are rough or lame and/or younger than me. What should I do? :-(
2006-10-30 03:57:02 · 8 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just live your life from day to day until the pain fades. Someone else WILL come along and you'll love him just as much (more) as you loved your ex. 2 years is a long time to be with someone, but you'll be with Mr Right so long that 2 years will seem like a blink of an eye.
In the mean time, hang out with your friends. Find a way to enjoy (or at least distract) yourself. Don't necessarily look for a new guy right away.
Oh, and give younger guys a chance. I married a younger guy.
Pix
2006-10-30 04:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by pixiest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some how you really need to move on, I know you say the guys near you are no good for what ever reason, so you will have to go a bit further a field, go out with some girlfriends to some night clubs or something somewhere that is far enough but near enough to get to , somewhere that has different guy's to ur own town or village, I know its not easy to move on but you need to for your sanity. Good luck
2006-10-30 12:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some girl friends to hang out with - Start a bunko group or something like that - I used to be in one and STILL have no clue how to play bunko. We just got together everyweek at one of our houses and had fun. I replaced my ex with a sweet furry lovey dovey german shepherd puppy - I love her so much more then him. I eventually met my boyfriend at work - we've been together 3 1/2 yrs now - he loves my dog too
2006-10-30 12:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take up a hobby, join a gym (the endorphins will make u feel better), take some classes, join a civic group, volunteer somewhere. just do something to fill in the free time so that u arent sitting around feeling sorry for urself.
p.s. kindly thank the friend for her good intentions but politely tell her to butt out this time and the next time as well.
2006-10-30 11:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I left my ex I thought my world was coming to an end....but it was just the beginning!
First thing that happened was that I was able to find out who I was and I was blessed to be touched by God and started a meaningful relationship with Him!
From there I have been blessed many times over! Spread your wings, talk to God and believe!
2006-10-30 12:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance yourself from him for awhile (maybe 3-6 months), and focus your attention on a hobby, job, etc. You need to find something that you can 'lose yourself' in besides him.
2006-10-30 11:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one but don't make any decisions "on the rebound".
2006-10-30 12:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Bella Donna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another guy!! that's how you'll get over
2006-10-30 11:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋