She say's exit only, I say make it an entrance for a day.
2006-10-30 03:53:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
A bit of a personal question, but I'll take a shot...
Anal sex is a common practice among both heterosexuals and homosexuals, and is typically safe. However, it can and is also a common way to spread disease, expecially among homosexuals. The act itself can cause trauma and tearing in the rectum and/or anus, and potentially even a perforation which could cause peritonitis and even death. The greater risk is being infected with viruses (ie, HIV) from an infected partner through trauma (even the smallest of tears provides a portal for infection).
If you're talking a monogamous sexual encounter with a married partner, you are probably pretty safe from spread of disease, assuming you are both disease free. Just take it easy to avoid "trauma", my friend. (One word: KY....and I don't mean "kentucky")
Also, beware that going directly from anal sex to vaginal can also result in infection on the female's part. Never go from "back to front" without cleaning up first, if you get my drift. You can transfer bacteria to places it should NOT GO.
enjoy....
(this is the funnest question I've answered yet, I think)
2006-10-30 04:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by PaPaFreak 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be safe. Be clean. Be gentle. Be lubricated. Be aware of her reaction. Be thankful. Do not attempt without first manually preparing her. Do not be discouraged if she does not want to after the first few manual attempts. Be sure that your hands are very clean. Offer to let her return the manual stimulation on you. This will allow you to feel what she feels, and help you to learn the best way to do it. I also reccomend having her "on top" so that she is in complete control of the insertion and speed.
2006-10-30 04:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by kittykittykitty 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure can. She is correct. Listen to her. Unless you want to get the e-coli thing or the aids thing. it is how it was first started and how it is spread the most now. Not the best place to be going into, especially with no protection from it. Even if you used a condom, it could leak and where would you be then if you got the germ and it started to grow? Like I said, LISTEN to her.
2006-10-30 03:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by ramall1to 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to do that anyway?I was married to a guy that did it one time and it really hurt so he didnt do it any more but I think he found some one that would.I couldnt prove he did.Iam not married to anyone now and like it that way.Signed,Free Little Lillie
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2016-10-21 00:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if the other person has STD(s), just like vaginal intercourse
if its her 1st time she'll be totally sore afterwards and never want to do it again!!
make sure she'll totally relaxed prior to entrance
be genital on her, otherwise she could get an infection if she has a tear inside
you lucky buggerer!!
2006-10-30 03:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
*n*L S*X INTRO:
Introducing Anal Sex
Anal sex is one of the most taboo forms of sexual play commonly practiced. Long a source of societal shame and discomfort, many people feel the anus is off-limits so it's embarrassing for some people to admit they like having their anus touched or stimulated. But there's really no reason to be embarrassed. Anal play has long been a part of sexual practice for over a third of Americans, including homosexual and heterosexual men and women, both partnered and alone. Most people don't realize that anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal play; stimulation with fingers, toys and tongues is far more common, partly because the prostate, the rectum and the rim of the anus are all rich sources of nerve endings. Gentle stimulation of these areas can be very pleasurable.
Talk to your partner about anal sex and anal play. Find out his or her feelings on the subject. If he or she is adamantly opposed, back off for awhile. Try giving your partner a book on the subject. After he or she is better informed, your partner may be more willing to discuss integrating anal play into your relationship. Approach the subject carefully, and be very aware of your partner's feelings. Many women are embarrassed about anal sex, but have been longing to try it for a long time. Likewise, many men are extremely eager to experiment with this new form of play (as receivers and givers), yet remain convinced their partners would never consider it. Talk to each other about your desires. You may have more in common than you think!
Anal Play
Once you're both comfortable with the idea, start slowly. Try different kinds of lubrications and find one you both like. Then start with gentle touching. If you feel uncomfortable or tense, stop for a few minutes and try to relax until you're ready to experiment further. Many people enjoy having a finger slowly inserted into their anus. Your partner might try twirling his or her finger just inside the sphincter muscles, or a gentle shunting motion in and out of the anus. You might want to progress to rimming, a form or oral sex performed on the anus, or experimentation with dildos and other anal toys. Always use lots of lubrication and never insert anything into your anus that doesn't have a flared end -- the last thing you want is a trip to the emergency room!
Anal Intercourse
Many men and women are curious about anal sex but are scared about comfort and safety issues. If you are curious, the following steps will ensure you have a safe and enjoyable experience.
Use a condom. Never go from anus to mouth, or anus to vagina, without washing carefully (and changing condoms) in between.
If the thought of some fecal matter is horribly repulsive to you, the receptive partner can use an enema beforehand.
The anus has no natural lubrication, so you'll need to use plenty of lubricant.
Relax and go slow. Encourage the receiving partner to take deep breaths and communicate his or her feelings aloud.
Start with external stimulation from something small, like a finger or a small vibrating toy.
Once the receiving partner has relaxed and begun to feel aroused, insert the finger or toy gently into the anus, letting the anal sphincter accommodate the object.
Gently move the object in a shallow circular motion. The two rims of the sphincter are rife with nerve endings, so this small motion should feel good. If it doesn't, stop or do something different.
When you are both ready to move on to something larger, consider using a small dildo or vibrator first. This will allow greater control and may make things easier for the receiving partner.
Once you are ready to introduce a penis or larger sex toy into the anus, slow down and proceed with caution.
Allow the receptive partner to set the depth and pace.
Breathe and concentrate on relaxing your anus. Keep communicating.
Don't neglect stimulation of other parts of the body. Clitoral or penis stimulation combined with anal play can be quite exciting.
Stop immediately if there is discomfort or if either partner says he or she wants to stop.
This should be an enjoyable experience. If it is not, stop.
Anal Toys
Anal sex can be enjoyed in various forms by both men and women of all sexual orientations. If you're afraid to broach the subject with your partner, you're not alone: many people don't find the courage to experiment with anal play until well into their sexual lives. However, you might consider taking a deep breath and blurting out your interest in anal play. Who knows? Your partner may have been secretly longing to tell you of his or her own interest! At the worst, you may feel some embarrassment. At best, you'll discover a new experience that will stimulate you and maybe even enrich your sex life. You may also find that you just don't care for anal sex. That's fine too. Anal sex isn't for everyone! At MyPleasure, we are firm believers in trying everything once. So try it and see if you like it. If not, you don't ever have to do it again. But if you do find that you like anal play, consider adding some anal dildos (also called butt plugs), beads or vibrating anal toys to your pleasure chest. Toys can add a distinctive touch to your anal pleasures!
2006-10-30 04:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
from a medical point of view, the way that you could get sick is from having anal sex and then vaginal or oral sex after. you are as likely to get hiv through vaginal as you are with anal.
2006-10-30 03:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are too rough and rip something she can get an infection.
2006-10-30 03:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by rebel g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just dont go anal and then mouth do mouth first or before anal if you do that your good have fun
2006-10-30 04:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋