I pushed and pushed a man I care about and some how throw this realized I love him. But the last thing he said to me was: ................
I'm done...life's too short for this much crap...you win...have a nice life. Bye...............
My heart is broken I been crying sense last night and today I need peace the truth WILL he come back will I ever see him again /when will he ever kiss me again? if so when? Or should I count my loses...PSYCHIC APPLY!!!
2006-10-30 03:24:20 · 17 answers · asked by Good Heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are woman.. we do that!!!!
I think, you pushed him away FOR A Reason. ( maybe intuition?!)
So stop blame your self!!!
You Will be loved . And he will come back.
Don't cry
2006-10-30 03:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by awg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably hurt and angry. Give him some time to cool off, write him a letter explaining how you feel and make an offer of friendship if he won't go for more.
My husband and I went through something similiar. I kept pushing him away because he wanted something romantic and I didn't. This happened several times. Finally, we just agreed to be friends and left romance on the back burner. It didn't take long, since there was no pressure there, for the old feelings to resurface. Now, we've been married for a year and we're expecting a baby by Nov. 26.
I can't promise this is how your situation will turn out, but like I said, give him some time and just be honest with him. If it's meant to be, things will work out on their own. If not, you'll find someone better - even if it doesn't feel that way right now.
2006-10-30 11:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes mistakes at some point in their life that effects others. Some people only think about what will happen at that moment. They don't think about the long term consequences. Even though he is gone he still care about you. You can't think that he is suppose to leave you and come back the next day. When he is ready he will see you again. Just give him enough time to calm down and he will talk to you. If you want him back ask him if he is willing to talk to you and explain why you did what you did. Always remember to use ''I'' statements. Start off by saying I am very sorry and tell him about the problem that led you to doing what you did.
2006-10-30 11:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by ebony d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need the advice of a psychic!! you cant go thru life trying to have someone tell you the answers of the unknown. anyway, why would you put your trust in someone that you dont know nor do you know if they are really a psychic. the best thing for you to do is try to resolve the situation yourself. if you did something to trigger him walking away from you, you can only try try to right your wrong. if you know you were wrong, you need to apologize with sincerity & try with everything within yourself to change the negative characteristic that tore you all apart. you can only try to make it better then followup with trying to convince him to give you another chance. if he doesnt, thats life..though your tears may still fall, they will soon dry up because life goes on and there will be another for you..but you need to learn from your mistakes and make sure you dont do the same thing twice..if you really love him, if you know that he loves you...put forth the effort to make it right, saying sorry isnt enough, you must follow-up with change. you dont need a psychic most times you determine your own destiny
2006-10-30 11:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by huneygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** like that happens, maybe you shouldn't have pushed him, but you probably were under stress or pissed of because of something at the time. The cold truth: you may never kiss him again, the guy sounds serious and pissed, move on to another guy, you'll never be ready to date again or get over him unless you actually go out there and go out with other guys. There are a lot of other guys out there who will probably love to go out with you ;-) Good luck!
2006-10-30 11:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I have a husband who has really harsh words, when we fight , he tries to leave and he is soo dramatic. This past summer I left him and to make myself strong I kept goin to the gym , i got my hair done, did a makeover, even started taking bath with candles and indulged in myself. You are sacred and beautiful, if he doesnt think so, you should find a man that treasures you. If this aint the guy, then someone else will treasure, he'll be worth the wait. Wait it out and pamper urself in the meantime, love yourself first. you are worth it!
2006-10-30 11:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by she_wah_dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get what you give in life. If you pushed and weren't good to him, it shouldn't be a surprise he left. You need to deal with your issues as to why you pushed before you worry about dating him, or anyone else again. Otherwise, it will be the same thing over and over again.
2006-10-30 11:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by beckas_lily_of_the_valley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on sweetheart.
The cold hard truth is you only love him now because he is gone. And even if that's not true you owe it to him to give him time, and if he never comes back then "oh well" you learn from your mistakes and don't make them in the next relationship.
2006-10-30 11:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i feel bad for you but chances are he isn't going to come back. did he know you loved him? were you pushing him b/c you loved him? did he at one time feel the same way about you? If he never loved you and you were giving him crap then its pretty much guaranteed hes not coming back and you are going to have to move on, but not until you mourn for a while. It helps you to get over him quicker.
2006-10-30 11:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by bartathalon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste anymore of your time dwelling on mistakes you make, spend that time on fixing that which can be fixed, or on the future.
2006-10-30 11:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋