i love two guys...one is my ex and the other is my boyfriend....i love them both....but the truth is i love my ex more than my boyfriend....i can't just leave my bf cause he really loves me and even want to marry me....he's so nice, i don't dare to break his heart....if i leave him, he doesn't want to live anymore....i can't get back to my ex cause i had told him to stay out of my life....i don't even let him became my friend...i just want my life back, be on my own.....i felt pain for loving the two of them...i just can't bare it anymore.....
2006-10-30 03:16:00 · 15 answers · asked by mag b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but...but..but...my bf and i don't have the same religon.....i'm a christian, he's a muslim....my parent will NOT approve our marriage
2006-10-30 03:23:40 · update #1
i CAN'T leave my bf....he might do something stupid, that i would regret for the rest of my life....i told my ex to stay out of my life bcoz i don't myself hoping that i could be back with him....
2006-10-30 03:36:38 · update #2
Just break it off with both of them and put it in God's hands. I am in this same situation right now. God has someone for you, but you have to be patient and let Him show you how to deal with the situation.
2006-10-30 03:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your ex for a reason. You will probobly always love im. That will never change. But the thing you have to realize is that you have a new boyfriend for a reason too. If you were to break up with him and go back with your ex.... the same old sh!t would just happen all over again and you would be left with nobody. Think about it.
2006-10-30 03:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to be true to yourself here. If your current b/f doesn't have your whole heart, are you being fair to him? Don't you think you both deserve better than that? You want to be with someone you love whole heartedly and he deserves to have that too. Try taking some time to yourself and think about what you want. While it might hurt now, you'll both be happier in the long run.
2006-10-30 03:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should have considered this before you dumped your ex? You now have a wonderful guy that loves you. Stay with that and don't make the same mistake again!
2006-10-30 03:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend deserves better if this is how you're thinking. Get over your ex. Shoot, I'll talk to your boyfriend and tell him what kind of girlfriend you are, then he'll dump you and you can pine for them both and wind up a cat lady.
2006-10-30 03:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to be you need out of the relationship you are now in. You are not being honest with your boyfriend because you love you ex. So you are being wrong to your boyfriend. Stop thinking only of yourself, that is what you are doing because your not being honest to anyone.
2006-10-30 03:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may be you have to seriously make a choice .loving someone is not easy but you have to find the truth inside of every ones heart including your own i believe you were sent two very special people who were giving the oppourtunity to love at their own free will but what you need to do is ask yourself which one can i trust to love me and respect me for the rest of my life come what may the choice is yours i hope you make the right one good luck ok .....E
2006-10-30 03:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need is to think of their feelings, yours are important as well, but you cant love them both. you need to think of the harm you are doing to them by loving another person. if they find out they will probably get more hurt, so just talk to them. it is just so unhealthy for you and for them. sooner or later you will know that the decision you made was for the best.
2006-10-30 03:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by christy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the both of them why did you left your ex and you are telling that you like your ex more than your bf it's your problen but i think that you shoud"nt have a bf nor an ex
2006-10-30 03:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by j.persie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say what you mean, and mean what you say...you told him(ex) to stay away-you do the same..if you have someone who loves you, and you cannot commit totally(emotional), you need to move on by yourself for a time to figure what relationships are...
2006-10-30 03:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋