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please give honest opinons and don't write me off cos i know i might sound jealous and petty. my boyfriend is moving in with his best female friend just him and her who he fancied when he first met her. she is renound for sleeping around and has no scruples for going after men in relationships in fact it gives her a buzz to do that. she isn't very pretty so it's not like i think she's a real threat cos she's a real stunner and he doesn't fancy her now and nothing has ever happened between them and they have been friends for 2 years. he knows i don't like her and don't like the way she behaves. don't get me wrong i have loads of close girlfriends and usually i'm a real girls girl.

basically can someone tell me i'm not being ridiculous cos he says i am but can he love me that much if he moves in with her when he knows it makes me feel prickly and is it understandable i feel jealous and weird about it cos whether it's right or wrong i just do!!!

elp!

2006-10-30 02:51:12 · 23 answers · asked by fionazzz 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

thanks! of course i know it's not really about looks and that's not the issue.

his thoughts on my bad attitude and negativity. thing is i'm a lot more positive and generous than him. ok i feel jealous about this but in general i don't think i have a bad attitude.

do we have to be perfect or isn't it about respecting someone's opinon and trying to make them happy.

oh i dunno!!

2006-10-30 03:05:27 · update #1

23 answers

give them all up - life is too short for all this crap, and move on and make new friends, let them all get on with it

2006-10-30 02:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 2 0

Fionazz, to tell you the truth, one irony of life, sometimes, is that some of us guys don't really look for beauty when choosing a gurl. Rather, the most important consideration is getting someone who's a perfect match. Try and study this guy very closely and remember when you were together with him in the past. I'm very sure he must've complained about some attitudes in you which put him off. If only you can shelve those "negative" attitudes, then you'll see him coming to you, even in a rush. Trust me for this cos I'm a guy. Cheers and goodluck.

2006-10-30 11:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0 1

Listen, I'm a guy and I think the whole situation is just plain bad. I would have a MASSIVE problem with that situation, and I really believe that if he really had any sort of feelings for you the option of moving in with another woman, especially one of whom he has a personal history (of any nmeasure), should not have even been considered. And NEVER trust a man. Sorry, sweetie.

2006-10-30 10:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by mordecaisunstorm 1 · 1 0

If they've not slept together yet, I would imagine that she's just not interested. If he's moving in there despite your wishes, he might well want to sleep with her and sees this as a way of achieving this. Either way, he would rather live in the same house as another woman that you really don't care for. There are a few basic ground rules to adhere to in a relationship and one is respect for the other person's feelings. He has broken this one. Dump him before he dumps you.

2006-10-30 11:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 2 · 0 1

No, you are not being ridiculous. What you are feeling is perfectly normal. It is him who is not doing the right thing. If he really loved you he wouldn't be putting you through this and if he had no feelings for her, then he wouldn't be moving in with her. Sorry if that is not what you want to hear, but I think there is more to this than meets the eye. Why isn't he moving in with you? or with one of his male friends? I would really question this. Good luck.

2006-10-30 11:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I don't see how he can say he loves you when he is doing something he knows make you unhappy. What if it was the other way round - would He like it, would he accept it. IF my fella told me he was moving in with his best female friend knowing that I don't like her and that she sleeps around I'm sorry but I would be off. He should see this from your point of view and yes I would be jealous!!!

2006-10-30 10:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Aero 1 · 0 1

girl you are right for feeling that way about the situation. You definitely dont want to do that. Obviously, your bf still likes her that way, if he liked her that way when he met her. Come on...girl you betta let it be known how you feel and if he does that, its over between you two. You never ever ever ever ever let ya man move in with a chick, no matter what. Thats a rule for life.

2006-10-30 11:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 1 1

Its your boyfriend dont feel jealous of it i felt the same way when my x- boyfriend wanted to move in with a girl i told him it wouldn't work out between us if he did that n he didnt end up moving in with her , so tell him how you feel if he cant accept it then hes not worth dating

2006-10-30 10:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by misty k 1 · 0 1

I would feel EXACTLY the same way you do so dont think your being stupid! who's idea was it for them to move in together? i would hate it so much if my boyfriend moved in with his best girlmate. But i cant understand why you and ur BF aren't living together.

2006-10-30 11:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sazi 3 · 0 1

Regardless of whether something is going on, he's not respecting your feelings or you wishes by moving in with her. If he does it, dump him or he will not respect you in other matters either.

2006-10-30 10:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1 0

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