does it bother you when i guy has a kid? would you still date them?
2006-10-30 02:37:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if the guy is responible enough to handle is life and the kids then sure i would date him. as long as the guy has his head on his shoulders and is smart and works and supports his family then he would be a good catch. plus single guys with kids are super adorable.
2006-10-30 02:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by shortcrazychic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it does not bother me if they have kids, and yes I would still date them. Just because he has a kid does not mean they are a bad person it just means that they are more mature and more responsible if they have a child. It matters what is in the inside of a person not if they have a kid or an ex wife somewhere.
2006-10-30 02:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, only because I have been in that situation and it's not one I want to be involved with or deal with. I am totally not comfortable around that. I feel like a hypocrite, because I have a child, and would have to have a guy that can handle that. But I already know from experience that I'm not willing to deal with that anymore.
To Paula T: Just because a guy has a kid, it doesn't mean he is mature and responsible. My ex is proof of that. I understand that some guys may be, but not all. A lot of the irresponsible ones are the ones who brag about the fact that they have kids, yet aren't a main part of their lives. Because they know that some people, like you, will THINK they are mature and responsible.
2006-10-30 02:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what sort of guy how did end up having a kid ? is he responsible or not
If It was up to me I do not think I would date a guy with a kid unless if the kid was a well behaved one and the guy is worth being with .
2006-10-30 02:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Eng.F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would bother me only if he had full custody because of the fact the child would be around all the time. I think I would still date him as long as I didn't have to deal with the Baby mama drama. That would be too much to handle for a couple of dates.
2006-10-30 02:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on who the mother is and if the kid lived with him or her, having a kid isnt that bad. It was just a mistake that they mad... and trust me there will be plenty more of those. And it also matters if they are trying to get with you only bc of your money?... in that case there trying to put there kid on use.. and that isnt right.
Thinking this is probly you that has the kid, if that girl doesnt want to be wiht you bc you have a kid, she isnt mature enough to take care of it in the first place. Haveing a kid is just an obsticle in your life.... she should look around her and take a piture bc her life is about to change in the next couple of years.
2006-10-30 02:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Someonetolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My now husband had 5 children when we started dating. It takes extra patients on the part of the woman, but if she cares, then she will invest the extras that are needed.
Just do you kid(s) a huge favor and don't expose them to a revolving door of women. Only introduce them when you feel that the relationship may develop into something permanent.
2006-10-30 02:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John, I have always stayed away from men w/kids. The reason being that first it is unfair to the kids to take time away from them and second is I don't want to hear on a Friday night that he can't make it because of ______ involving the kids. It may sound harsh but it was a rule I stuck by that way I got his full attention and he got mine.
2006-10-30 02:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on the guy...how responsible he is, if he is a good father, good person. There's nothing wrong with having a kid, unless he can't care for it. I am a single Mom with two boys...so I know it's hard dating when you have a child (or two!). You will find someone...it just takes time.
2006-10-30 02:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating a single father now. It depends on what the person is looking for. Some woman want to start their own family and other's already have children and it doesn't matter. Every woman has different tastes. You will find the right one though! Good Luck.
2006-10-30 02:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋