It’s been over a year since my Ex and me split, thank god.
So this weekend he send me and several of the girls he cheated on me with an e-mail saying he’s married and has a child on the way. This is the guy who cheated on me and got a girl pregnant in another state and after I found out and broke up he sent the girl here. So not only did he cheat on me several time, he now has another child on the way. Why the hell did he think he would get me upset by emailing me and some of the girls he cheated on me with. IS he stupid or what? Keep in mind I had called the police on him and he was told not to contact me.
My question is why would he be stupid enough to e-mail his Ex and some girls he f****ed around with in the same e-mail?
I’m not sure if he is making it up, I could careless to be honest, I think he came across my myspace account that shows pictures of me and my boyfriend Tom. Why do men do stupid things like this? Did he honestly think he could hurt me more?
2006-10-30 02:34:10 · 25 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all men. This guy is just a retard. He's some kind of attention vampire and if he can't have you, he wants to mess you up for everyone else. Don't sweat this. the fact that you care enought o even post this, makes him win already in a certain way. Ignore his egotisic idiocy. Just forget about him.
2006-10-30 02:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you're probably not going to like my answer but I'm going to keep in real for you. He is trying to get to you and it's working. No one knows why guys do what they do, usually for nothing more than attention but that's besides the point. He has accomplished his goal of making you think about him. I mean think about it, you're so bothered by it that you've posted a question about him. That's way more energy on your part than he deserves. Believe me I know, even after a year it still hurts that he cheated on you and you can't stand to think that he might be happy. You'd rather him be homeless and suffering. And yes, he probably does think he can hurt you more and he is. Don't give him the satisfaction of controlling your emotions again. I know it's hard but just remember how horrible it felt a year ago and don't let him get the best of you. You are obviously doing well and you have a new boyfriend. Just get lost in Tom and everything will be fine.
2006-10-30 02:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by gbsunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahah o guys are retarted sometime. he probably did come across the myspace account and now is trying to make you jealous by saying he is married and has a little family forming and what not. when in reality he is probably sitting all alone at home with nothing because he is crazy. don't respond with him b/c it will fuel up the craziness. i know this from experience. i had a crazy ex who found my myspace account and said he was engaged and crap. well he wasn't and he is a loser. same with your guy. I am betting TOM your b/f now is way better anyway:)
2006-10-30 02:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by shortcrazychic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if u think about it he did accomplish what he probably set out to do and that was to get u going and get u angry, because by your question u are upset. The fact that u would even post the question means it did bother u...........let it go. Who cares what he does in his life. Just ignore it as if it never happened and don't give it time or energy, which is what he wants. He only did it to get a reaction, and he has. Don't give him the satisfaction. Be happy u are rid of him and let him play his little games on his own.
2006-10-30 02:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brothers ex girlfriend did this to him she called all excited I'm pregnant with Tim's baby we're so happy. My husband worked with the fathers brother and brother had already told us how father to be was crying he didn't want her or the kid how did he get away? Well he figured out his escape route and a few months later she was calling my brother saying Tim left me he want have anything to do with me. He said oh I'm sorry to hear that Bridget and I are getting married so sometimes these things bite them in the rear.
2006-10-30 02:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by jo_jo_baby2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He apparently did think that the email would bother you, and it seems that he was right. If you weren't bothered at all by his email, like you say, then why are you dwelling on it? Someone who didn't care would have seen the content of the email and just hit delete without a second thought.
2006-10-30 02:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's retarded. He is merely trying to brag that despite the fact things didn't work out between the two of you, he has moved on and gotten married and is about to have a child. He's trying to get under your skin -- just ignore him. Chances are his marriage won't last anyway.
2006-10-30 02:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's reaching out for some long lost lusting.....maybe trying to show his new found maturity of knocking someone up...but remember any man can't get any woman prego but it takes a real man to be a father and by the sounds of it ...I doubt he will ever get to be that real man.
2006-10-30 02:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Paul M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous of you and your new relationship. It sounds like he is really immature and thinks he's hurting you doing this or he could in some weird way be confessing all of his past indiscretions to you. You did good by getting rid of him.
2006-10-30 02:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by babyboy9car 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! what an ***....he is stupid....don't open any future e-mails, delete them straight away, the less you have any contact with him the better you'll move on goodluck
2006-10-30 02:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋